Author	Thread: advice
anyann View Profile History	advice Posted : 3 Jan, 2011 11:45 AM Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yoursėlf to be their option. what are your thoughts on this advice? Post Reply
anyann View Profile History	advice Posted : 3 Jan, 2011 11:48 AM (sorry for the mistake!) Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option. what are your thoughts on this advice? Post Reply
View Profile History	advice Posted : 3 Jan, 2011 12:08 PM Yeah I'd agree. I'm sure there's an exception, but I can't think of one. Post Reply
View Profile History	advice Posted : 3 Jan, 2011 12:23 PM if your an option they don't really love you Post Reply
View Profile History	advice Posted : 3 Jan, 2011 12:36 PM Shall I wax eloquent, sounding intelligent, like Ophra Winfrey or Doctor Phil ? or tell you a true story.... A happily married couple; friends of mine, 2 grown children 2 grandchildren another grandchild on the way. She chased him shamelessly for years. He was her priority she was an option. She caught him and it has worked well for them for 30 years and is only getting better. Should everyone do it...no, but it is a option depending on the situation. My last girlfriend I made a priority, she did not reciprocate by making me her priority. So I left. She wanted to come back, so I said ok. We got back together and she got upset that I didn't make her my priority like before. I told her I would when she did....the relationship ended...lol Post Reply
View Profile History	advice Posted : 3 Jan, 2011 12:51 PM :bouncy::bouncy:Oprah--- Dr.Phil; Move Over! :excited: I think we'd rather hear from someone real! My opininon--- #1 priority God #2 priority-your spouse I was in a similar situation as two and the end result was the same. chevy Post Reply
stormcountry33 View Profile History	advice Posted : 5 Jan, 2011 07:34 AM anyann...I'm sad to say that I have only ever done that and I'm tired of it!! Its like I have a huge heart and care about someone and develop feelings for them and they just take all the good that comes from my caring and then once they get their fill they're gone..."sorry about your luck!"... this is one thing I hope to change this year...no longer just being an "option". Post Reply
View Profile History	advice Posted : 5 Jan, 2011 08:10 AM stormcountry, I have a feeling that whatever young lady makes you a priority and not an option will be a happy and Blessed person! True, Godly men are hard to find these days. No one wants to be an "option". Deborah Post Reply