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anyann

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Posted : 1 Jan, 2011 12:23 PM

does a woman have to be only a responder in the relationship;

what changes happen in a man when he feels that he is chased?

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Posted : 1 Jan, 2011 01:17 PM

He Runs!:dancingp:

But sometimes he's hoping to get caught!:bouncy:

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Posted : 1 Jan, 2011 10:44 PM

If one walks into a pasture to catch a horse and marches straight for it with a look of determination while staring right at it, it will leave and the more it is chased the worse it gets, unless you just wear them down.

or

One can casually walk in the direction of the horse, like you are maybe interested in a clump of grass next to it, it will probably stand still, if it moves, stop and turn around, they will often walk right up to your back, then if you walk away they will follow..



There are lots of applicable lessons in there, but I share this to say dancing works better than chasing.

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Elisa

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Posted : 1 Jan, 2011 10:59 PM

Chevy and TwoS,

Y'all are simply too funny. The visual images are making my belly ache from so hard. Well written gentlemen.

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Tulip89

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Posted : 1 Jan, 2011 11:55 PM

Men and women should both chase each other, like two children playing tag on the playground. Too often, men act like they're cheetahs running down a gazelle, and it doesn't end well.

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SilverFire

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Posted : 2 Jan, 2011 09:37 AM

I think Tulip said it just about as well as it could be said.

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rainbowian

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Posted : 2 Jan, 2011 01:04 PM

There's nothing wrong with the woman chasing. It doesn't mean that she's desperate, as some seem to think. Most women on a dating site will get lots of interest. If she was desperate, she'd just pick from the guys that express interest in her.

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Cozumeldiver

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Posted : 7 Feb, 2011 06:04 AM

There's a fine line between being only, "a responder" and showing an interest;ie, taking some intiative. For me, I like a confident assertive woman.



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