Author	Thread: what do I need to be, who am I?
Rabbit32 View Profile History	what do I need to be, who am I? Posted : 28 Aug, 2010 09:55 PM When I first became single again, it was kinda scary. I had spent 10 years in a relationship to find myself in a world I don't remember and one that has changed. What hadn't changed was the uncertainty about what attracted the opposite sex. Being me I aim to please, and to be as desirable as possible. I am pretty good about seeking knowledge about things I KNOW I dont know if that made sense lol. Being single afforded me the opportunity to meet all kinds of new people, especially women. Some became good friends of mine. One question I have often asked, is whether I looked better with or without facial hair. I was surprised to find that there wasn't a general consensus. Most either did, or did not. In a funny way, that became a revelation which started me investigating if women had different taste. There were other things that women favored about me that others didn't and it was things that were natural about me. It seems I attract mostly those women that like the whole "brawny man" type guy. Furthermore I have found me, and myself in Christ. I am unique as is everyone, and I only need to be the best me God created as should everyone else, and not worry to much about what other people think ;) I�ve learned to embrace the core me, and it has given me a confidence I have never known before. Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	what do I need to be, who am I? Posted : 29 Aug, 2010 07:56 AM It's a good place to be, not many are there or will ever be, you are fortunate because you sought it out and were willing to see the good/bad in yourself. sounds like your in the process of healing. God is good :) Post Reply
View Profile History	what do I need to be, who am I? Posted : 29 Aug, 2010 03:36 PM That's good stuff Rabbit. It got me thinking of some of the things I think I can honestly say about myself that I couldn't say before I started on this site. Rock steady :rocknroll: :applause: Post Reply
View Profile History	what do I need to be, who am I? Posted : 29 Aug, 2010 04:19 PM Thanks for sharing, Rob. I believe we need to learn from everything in life. Good, bad, hard, easy, relationships, lonliness, family, friends, work, play, etc. It sounds as if you have learned from the path God has led you on. God will bless that, of this I am sure of. I've experienced the same thing myself. Post Reply