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Avoiding broken hearts
Posted : 26 Aug, 2010 05:29 AM
Hi all,
After observing what most people here are putting in the forum, I think I reach to some conclusions of avoiding the last thing we want to go through, broken heart.
As I am a woman, I would start with us, as usual, ladies always go first right lol
Sisters.. Please do remember that we are a creature made of feelings, there is nothing wrong with that, in fact that is how God designed us. And, He was, is and will always be the perfect creator, so God never creates mistakes nor any lack in His creations. Due to the fact, when a guy comes and approaches us, do not think ONLY with our feelings, since God gives us logic as well, use our heart and brain to know whether this guy is really the right one He sent or not. Remember, Revelations 3:8, once He opens a door no one would be able to shut it. I am not saying of this reason for us to not opening our heart, just open our heart yet use our head to see things. We do not want to end up with broken heart, or worse divorce. Use our head to see who that guy really is, his characters, decisions, and use our heart to determine whether this guy is truly for us or not, heart can not lie.
For my brothers here.. Since we women are creatures created by God of feelings, unlike you guys who are more logical type of creature, please be careful in what you are saying or acting. Though it may seem simple for you guys, it may be a very big thing for us. And, we are not creatures that could easily walk up after being broken, we are not that strong. If you think you could not make the promises or keeping your words, just tell us upfront. We all know that the last thing you want is to hurt us accidentally but sometimes we need you to help us seeing the fact. We need a strong man of God to help us be a better and balanced woman of God who is pleasing God and other humankind.
For both men and women, well as we all know, the golden rule is, do not play with each others feeling. I am even unsure I should write this one lol don't mean to dictate anyone, sorry lol
I am writing this out of love and care, we do not want to spread another broken heart, rite.. No mean to offend anyone, in fact if you have another suggestion, list it under! I am sure I did not cover much here =)
Anyway, I hope this post would eventually works as its title.. =)
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