Author	Thread: morals/ relationships
Admin	morals/ relationships Posted : 20 Aug, 2010 03:51 PM I have read some post in the last few months that concern me. I wish to address some issues with out being a jerk here. Paul wrote that women should council young women and men should council young men. I write this because I wish to impress upon those who have questions we should not attack women who are christian about the way they dress and hold them to some kind of dress code.This is for women to talk about to the young ladies not men saying graphic details about women in a post. As long as ladies dress conservative that is ok with me. I also wish to bring out the fact that certain issues about male/female relations like going skinning dipping with a friend of the opposite sex is very wrong. We are to flee the appearance of evil.Dennis Post Reply
View Profile History	morals/ relationships Posted : 20 Aug, 2010 09:22 PM I agree with you Dennis, however sometimes hearing this from someone of the same sex might be received as jealously by some. Hearing the point of view from the opposite sex, may have more impact and acceptance. The postings I have read have been presented well and I have not read any adverse responses. Post Reply
GraceMae View Profile History	morals/ relationships Posted : 20 Aug, 2010 10:54 PM Recently, I've been reflecting on the equally/unequally yoked area of scripture. It surprises me, because I've just been dead center in dealing with a situation. Two believers in Christ.... yet walking differently, rather not taking "all" the word of God in application of daily living. Particularly addressing celibacy... Two believers. The woman says, no sex because of what she believes... the man says, he's not into the word "that" deep, BUT, he believes in God as his savior. We come together here, in this community and other online dating communities in presumption that other Christian believers are all on the "same" page... when in reality, we aren't. The spiritual level of maturity means everything. If both are not on the same page, Lord Jesus, anything is possible, and most anything goes, so the skinny dipping thing... oh well, so what! The reality of today is, nothing wrong with it. Morals, morals you say... pssst... ughh.... morals seems to be blown out in the wind these days.... There are many "Christians" out here who believe in God, our Saviour, however they place certain restraints on themselves with the parts of the word of God they will/will not abide by. It can be very deceiving to those of us inter-mingling with them. It is so important that we have a "made up mind" about our own personal walk, and that we know our own weaknesses else we be in the boat with them, SO easily. I have a lot on my heart that is deeper than your present topic Dennis. I been busy, and pre-occipied, but I'm glad I got on tonight. ~GraceMae Post Reply
View Profile History	morals/ relationships Posted : 21 Aug, 2010 03:01 PM Thanks for your input friends.Dennis Post Reply
fast99 View Profile History	morals/ relationships Posted : 27 Aug, 2010 06:42 PM It's a very strange thing that I have gone out with some" christian' women and a few have asked me to spend the night saying "We don't have to do anything' I just want to cuddle. I declined then they were upset with me. ! I do understand and miss closeness with someone but thats too close to a fire. I wonder if some women Really want a good guy ? !! lol I heard a good message yesterday that too many of us are concern what people think instead of what God thinks of us. Before I was saved I sept with all girlfriends and my wife before marriage - funny their gone and I'm among the ranks of the divorced. This is one area I want to get right and I left it at the foot of the cross - it's up to Him who he brings my way and I don't want to miss that blessing! Thx Post Reply
shepherdingking View Profile History	morals/ relationships Posted : 30 Aug, 2010 12:37 PM Some Women want emotional intercourse without the sexual advances. Some MEN WANT SEXUAL INTERCOURSE without having to give the emotional relationship.But they both go together. Men do not have enough emotional currency to give every woman they meet. But God designed it so one man and one woman can become one flesh. It is wrong for men to try to seduce women sexually. And it is wrong for women to trick men into an emotional relationship to satisfy their own sensual desires. " your desire will be for your husband, And he will rule over you." Gen. 3:16 :rocknroll: Post Reply
SweetViOlet View Profile History	morals/ relationships Posted : 1 Sep, 2010 04:57 AM You, sir, are a gem. Post Reply
SweetViOlet View Profile History	morals/ relationships Posted : 1 Sep, 2010 05:02 AM Keep with your morals. God blesses those who wait for His rewards in marriage. Men who are moral are rare and valued by moral women. Many think that a moral person is a cold person, physically. Wrong! Post Reply
SilverFire View Profile History	morals/ relationships Posted : 3 Sep, 2010 05:11 AM ShepherdKing wins the thread. Post Reply
View Profile History	morals/ relationships Posted : 12 Sep, 2010 08:04 PM I can not believe what I read. I would like to see if you are real. If anything at all, it would be nice to know a male who does not want to just have any girl and every girl that he meets. You are a man of God, I am so happy to meet you thought this sight. I was about to do some homework and I was lead to go to this sight. I have not checked into this sight in a long time. I had given up on it. I say stick to your guns, and get your woman. I may be a bit old for you. I am not your regular 54 year old. I have been called energetic and full of happiness. My Pastor gave me the fruit of Joy as to describe the fruit that stood out during a class. Be Blessed My Friend ! Joyful ! Post Reply