Author	Thread: Am I asking for too much?
hisprincess2010 View Profile History	Am I asking for too much? Posted : 6 Aug, 2010 03:38 PM Hi friends, I just had something on my mind? If a man is really interested in getting to know you, wouldn't they call, message or something? I don't expect this person to call constantly. But at least 2x a week would be reasonable. I always see him on fb, I know he sees me because we are friends. I talked to him a couple times before, it seemed like we were a match. He was excited to meet me. But now I feel like I am seeing signs that tell me he isn't who he says he is. He tells me I am just being impatient. What should I think about this.:glow: Post Reply
hisprincess2010 View Profile History	Am I asking for too much? Posted : 6 Aug, 2010 04:33 PM Hi everyone, Please reply I am needing advice kinda of like yesterday!!!:applause: Post Reply
View Profile History	Am I asking for too much? Posted : 6 Aug, 2010 07:05 PM Just from the information you have given here....it sounds as if he isn't interested enough to date you. Or, he is keeping you "in reserve", keeping up the contact just enough, while he pursues someone else. Just a guess on my part. Have you prayed about it? What do you think God is telling you? Post Reply
hisprincess2010 View Profile History	Am I asking for too much? Posted : 6 Aug, 2010 08:41 PM godslamb: Thank you, I was feeling the same thing. I just need confirmation. Post Reply
View Profile History	Am I asking for too much? Posted : 7 Aug, 2010 01:48 PM I guess if you're not sure if you're being impatient or not, then think real long and hard about what you really need and what you want and don't get the two mixed up, to the point where it's just the facts. State those facts to him. Take as much time as you need to, but at the same time don't prolong coming to a conclusion with yourself. Try to avoid making a mess. Good luck, I'm pullin' for ya. Post Reply
hisprincess2010 View Profile History	Am I asking for too much? Posted : 7 Aug, 2010 04:35 PM brandon, I asked him in a message about the feelings I was getting.., his reply was very vague. He wanted to come all the way to GA to visit me, but when I said I would set up a motel for him, and don't feel comfortable with him staying with me. That is when things started changing. I really think I have been a little too patient with him. What do you think his actions are telling you. Thanks for the feedback. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Am I asking for too much? Posted : 7 Aug, 2010 06:21 PM In this situation, I think the others are right that he isn't really as into you as you would like. However, in the very beginning, before you are officially boyfriend and girlfriend, phone calls being spread out isn't necessarily a bad thing. I really encourage it, actually. Post Reply
hisprincess2010 View Profile History	Am I asking for too much? Posted : 7 Aug, 2010 07:07 PM Tulip, Maybe you are right about the phone calls, maybe it is for the best.That way a I wont get emotionally connected to a person. Thanks for the insight everyone.Been years since I've dated or actually look so it is confusing for me. Post Reply
CTST View Profile History	Am I asking for too much? Posted : 10 Aug, 2010 05:54 AM Believe me, when a guy is interested in getting you he calls, come online, nearly at least once a day. If even from the start it already gives u the feeling of insecurity or something is not right somewhere i would advice you not to waste your precious moments and heart thinking about all the 'what ifs', maybe, etc etc Post Reply
hisprincess2010 View Profile History	Am I asking for too much? Posted : 12 Aug, 2010 10:51 AM CTST, Thanks. I just took him off my friends list on fb. GOD is opening my eyes to alot. Thanks for the advice.:glow: Post Reply