Author	Thread: How to attract the right kind of girl?
Admin	How to attract the right kind of girl? Posted : 9 Jul, 2010 11:31 AM Really I know when seeking a mate you should pray to God about it and trust he'll bring you the right one but how can a guy attract the right one though? I just seem to keep striking out. I mean I know that only means that those weren't the right ones for me but still, I'm not sure if I can attract the right one. I guess I'm not the best at letting a woman know who I really am and what I want in a relationship. Also most never stay around long enough to get to know me or I some how just communicate things wrong and they get mad or lose interest. I honestly don't know what to do differently besides just giving up and letting God bring her into my life if he even has someone for me. I dunno anymore. I really want to find the right girl and settle down and have a family. It's what I've always dreamed of. I just feel like I'm never going to find someone or if I do I'm going to be old. LOL. I'm not in a huge rush but I would like it to be maybe in the next couple of years when I settle down and have a family, I just need to find the right girl though. I'm really trying to focus on God and grow in him but I'm just so tired of being alone. It's just so frustrating... I've never been a real social guy but I know if I find the right woman we can grow together and in Christ and really have an amazing love for each other if we both give each other our all like I want us to give to God. I want that person who brings out the best in me and loves me no matter what... Post Reply
View Profile History	How to attract the right kind of girl? Posted : 9 Jul, 2010 11:43 AM I mean I've always been told that actions prove louder than words. So that'd mean living a life where I'm accountable and submitted to serving God with my whole heart and soul. I want to be a good example for other christians, people who are lost, my future wife and children if God blesses me with them. I can't say I go to church every Sunday, I haven't been in a while since I haven't found a church where I feel at home in a sense. I know if I was to be on fire for God that maybe I'd attract the right woman but I know my focus should be on God and not wanting a relationship. It's just I haven't really met anyone so it's harder to show through actions on here who you are. People can say anything on a website. Also I've noticed on here that no one seems to really want to love but seem to want other things. All I want is love and someone who is fully committed because that's how I am in a relationship. Can't say I've been fully committed to God cause I'm only human and I make mistakes but I'm striving to focus more and more on him and less on me and this world. I know this world has nothing for me cause everything here is temporary. I want to love God and my future wife and family if God should bless me with one with all my heart and soul. God will always be my first love though. I do love my father but I am also weak but I pray he makes me strong so I can be the man I deeply desire to be. Guess you could say I'm a lot like David. I make many mistakes over and over again but I never forget the one who made me and I thank him for making me even if I'm so broken, hurt, and confused. I want to know him deeper and deeper... Post Reply
View Profile History	How to attract the right kind of girl? Posted : 10 Jul, 2010 05:36 PM Steven... you need to trust in the Lord.. Dont think so much about have a relationship, please .Take delight in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart. Psalm 37:4 and if there is something you do not like or do not meet your expectations, is the answer you need, about that person is not for you. I will pray for you Steven Take care Be blessed.. Post Reply
View Profile History	How to attract the right kind of girl? Posted : 9 Aug, 2010 05:40 PM Hey! I don't think that there is any particular formula for attacting the right kind of person. I agree with you that actions do speak louder than words and that people can be, and a lot of the time are, deceitful..which can really make it difficult to find the person that is right for you. I guess the only advice I have is to keep persevering and to trust that God has a plan for your life. A plan that, in due time, will be well worth the wait. Honestly, this is something I struggle with too. Not so much the 'attracting the right kind of girl' part, haha, but the patience to see his plan . If you live your life the way you know pleases God, I would think that that action itself will help to narrow down the people that stay around you. Once someone knows who you are and what you stand for, I would hope that their lifestyle either works harmoniously with yours or is blaringly dissonant so that you know what kind of person they really are. Does any of my answer even make sense? Haha, I know what Im trying to say but Im not sure if its coming across. Regardless, I hope you've found some sort of encouragement in my answer-ish ramblings. =) God Bless Post Reply