On Thursday night I was praying deeply for a lot of requests not only mine, if not from other people (my friends) and came to my mind a few words with a lot of sense. It was as if our Father God told me and I should share with all of you and with all my heart and will share with you.
I also prayed for the wishes of the people who are on this page, for all of us that we are brothers in Jesuschrist.
This page was created for an only purpose, although there have been other points as meet new people, make dates, make friends, etc. but actually meant that we all want, I think, is to find our soul mate, it is to find a person who for some reason we have not found close to us and we believe or we want to have faith that we will find here at Christian Dating For Free.
God knows the desires of our hearts and he knows exactly what we need.
We can be as explicit as we like and maybe we want that our partner first of all, love with all his/her heart to God, that our future partner have many qualities, virtues, who has a profession, economic solvency, and so many things ... but this is necessary? worry about these vain things? I mean i know it is important too but Is not love a magic that comes from within? from our soul?
We seek the comfort and benefit, or we are seek to fall in love and know or live the true love?
I understand that love does not hurt, true love should not hurt. The word of God says, "We must take care of our heart," but sometimes we confuse this advice, and we become apathetic
suddenly we locked ourselves, and perhaps we missed an opportunity to find the person expected.
We forget that every second of our life is precious! and that there is someone out there or here designed just for each of us. Loving as we are, with our faults, our strengths, what we love, even give our lives for others.
God tells us every moment, that he wants the best for us, God says:// Do not look for mediocrity, do not waste your time, come to me here alone, come to me and tell me everything!: I am here to listen, I know who is for you, and you will know recognize as the wife who met her husband in the crowd, I want that for you. I will notice you because I will guide you if you remain in my commandments, if you stay with me, I'll hold your hand to your partner, and I will fill you with blessings because I've known you since before you were in your mother's womb. Believe in me. who has ears to understand please listen to me what I�m telling you, who wants to see the truth please open your eyes and trust on me! , I'm more closer to you than you cant imagine.//
You make some good points, Yoshua. I think that we do have to seek after God first and ask Him to guide us and to help us not invest our hearts in the wrong people. We can't always trust our feelings, so that's why it is so important to lean on God and ask for His wisdom in discerning things.
My heart always cheats me! and im tired of it... i really want that my Father God really guide me to the correct guy!!!!!!!!!...
i just want to find my soulmate and grow up together in the Lord.. but always people play with my feelings.. that�s not good...
Im very passionate Heather... i guess you know it.. but when i fall in love i really feeling ...im honest, im pure with this.. cuz love is like that..something pure.. and legitimate....
so i dont want nothing of anybody.. :( i cant trust... it�s like everybody is playing here.. my soul is sad right now.. sad and tired...and confused... God help me!!
I'm really passionate too, which feels great when you love someone who is loving you back... But then I think it makes it hurt more when the relationship ends. I thought I was madly in love w/ my ex-boyfriend (Todd) and when he broke up w/ me in February it felt like the end of the world. I cried hysterically for days and felt like I wanted to die.
Looking back on it now, though, I realize that the whole thing was emotionally based. There was never even real friendship there or any genuine compatibility. It was just a lot of fluff and sweet nothings, and Todd wanting to fill his own needs/desires and not truly caring about me.
I think I'm being more careful now... making sure there is friendship and actual compatibility before letting my heart get involved.
I know that not everyone is playing, Yoshua, but some are... or they're just not mature enough for a relationship. And that's why I think it is so important to take things slowly and make sure you have a solid friendship first.
I'm sorry you're so sad, tired, and confused =( I'm praying for you!
Sometimes this is where God wants us Schonerz, totally dependant on Him. The words to that song sounds like the writer is desperate for the Father to rescue her/him....dont forget He is jealous for your heart.
:glow:awwww our Father God is really so amazing.. i love that God loves me the way He does it! :D We are very lucky to be his princess dont you think?:applause:
awww pixy i have not read your message.. about your ex.. sorry...and forgive me..
But right now im thinking this verse of the bible from Jeremiah 15 20-21.
I will make you a wall to this people, a fortified wall of bronze; they will fight against you but will not overcome you, for I am with you to rescue and save you," declares the LORD.
He will rescue you Heather.. God will make us more strong and im here for you.. like your little sister =) you know i love you so much girl!! :)
It's okay about my ex! I am over him! I even finally ripped up his love letter to me and flushed it down the toilet! Haha. Despite all of my emotions, we did NOT have a good relationship and were very wrong for each other, so it was a blessing that we broke up and I'm grateful that God saved me from what probably would have developed into a really bad marriage.
Sometimes these times that are hearts break are good things. So don't get too depressed when it happens, Yoshua. Remember that God is sovereign and that He could be saving you from something you're not even aware of yet. And He probably has someone/something much better for you!! =)
That verse you shared is good encouragement.
You're so sweet... little sister... I love you and am here for you too =)
