Author	Thread: Help...I really don't know what to do anymore....
Admin	Help...I really don't know what to do anymore.... Posted : 15 Jun, 2010 04:07 PM I've been longing to find a good hearted christian woman to settle down with and spend the rest of my life with. I really really want someone special to love and cherish. Also I really really want to have a family someday and raise my children in church. I've asked the Lord so many times for a good christian mate but I haven't found her yet trusting in him or looking myself. I am at my wits end and I just don't know anymore. I'm about to be 24 and I feel like I'm going to endup spending the rest of my life alone without ever knowing true love, having that special someone to love to hold and to cherish for the rest of my life. I long for my best friend and my mate in one. My heart screams for her. I try to focus on seeking the Lord and everything else in my life but I just get so lost longing for a mate but I never find her. I'm just so sick of being alone and just so so sick and tired of everyone else being so happy with a mate and belssed with children and all while God seems to have forgotton me. Believe me I'm happy for them but why not me?? Why can't I have a good hearted christian mate and my own family? Post Reply
View Profile History	Help...I really don't know what to do anymore.... Posted : 15 Jun, 2010 04:09 PM Also I dunno if this is wrong or not but I'm really attracted to hispanic women and I pray the Lord will send me a really cute and good hearted christian hispanic woman. I just find them extremely beautiful.... Post Reply
View Profile History	Help...I really don't know what to do anymore.... Posted : 15 Jun, 2010 04:21 PM friend, when I was your age I felt the same way. The right lady will come along. Get involed in the forums to get to know the ladies here. This will help you out a lot. Ask them mant questions in a positive light. Ask them for advice, you will pick up friends. Oh, you are still wet behind the ears. A young pup who is on the prowl. ladies beware !!!!!!! :ROFL: Show your sense of humor. Advice from a brother.:dancingp: Dennis Post Reply
View Profile History	Help...I really don't know what to do anymore.... Posted : 15 Jun, 2010 05:22 PM Perhaps you should consider moving to a larger city and try attending different church youth groups to make friends. It's hard to find some one when you live in a small town, especially if you wish to narrow your search to a particular ethnicity. Also don't come across as too desperate - that will make most girls run! Make lots of friends of both sexes, because they will also have friends you may meet. (Networking) Post Reply
View Profile History	Help...I really don't know what to do anymore.... Posted : 16 Jun, 2010 12:07 AM Don't worry about it. If you do you're just less likely to get what you're looking for. Worry and angst have no place anywhere and are just unnecessary suffering. Just do your thing and be ok with it, whether it involves getting or having a girl at the moment or not. If you don't have a thing, get one, and wait for her to come around. I used to think the same thing too, until i realized life is still nice and the only reason it isn't is because i say it isn't because i don't have a girl. Also, if possible, don't rely so much on the internet. Talk to women in real life and where you like Hispanic women, go where they go, stores in the mall, mexican clubs or restraunts, etc. If you're in college see if you can study abroad in a latin country. Get creative man, that's when this becomes fun. Post Reply
View Profile History	Help...I really don't know what to do anymore.... Posted : 16 Jun, 2010 12:15 AM Oh yeah and never doubt, dispair, or say anything remotely negetive around them about anything. It's percieved (and correctly so, imo) as unmasculine and will detract them. Don't make it about you either. It's about them, which, uh, is where you start saying things without really meaning them or caring, but is what they want to hear and eat up. It sounds backwards, but that's how you do it. Don't go just off of that either. Talking to women is kinda complicated so get a book on it. Post Reply
View Profile History	Help...I really don't know what to do anymore.... Posted : 16 Jun, 2010 02:16 AM Actually let me take some of that back. It is caring, it's just not being a bleeding heart. Post Reply
View Profile History	Help...I really don't know what to do anymore.... Posted : 16 Jun, 2010 02:36 AM ... which leads to all kinds of reckless misunderstandings and her not knowing who you really are. Post Reply
View Profile History	Help...I really don't know what to do anymore.... Posted : 16 Jun, 2010 12:11 PM Sounds like utter madness from what you described.... LOL Post Reply
springrose10 View Profile History	Help...I really don't know what to do anymore.... Posted : 16 Jun, 2010 02:32 PM CoolSN, Good to hear from you again. You shared some significant issues on the prayer thread. How are you progressing? A word of caution. Relationships do not solve life's problems. If anything, they complicate already existing issues. As an "old lady", I can't adice you date at all until you've sorted through some of your struggles. God Bless, Rose Post Reply
View Profile History	Help...I really don't know what to do anymore.... Posted : 17 Jun, 2010 07:55 AM my take on it is simple; if your going to trust God, trust him. you will feel because you are human, but trust trumps emotions and logic. "...and having done all, to stand. Stand therefore..." chin up soldier! shoulders straight! etc... Post Reply

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