Author	Thread: Dating Advice For Chat Room Members Only
DatingGuru View Profile History	Dating Advice For Chat Room Members Only Posted : 15 May, 2024 10:10 AM First, here's some observation of the chat rooms: -There are "gatekeepers" that interrogate members. They project their own emotions accusing other members. These are senior adults (many who been on this site for 10-15+ years). -Racism. Members got bullied for using foreign dialects saying "Jesus loves you.". Ironic that non-USA members started to join in on the bullying--calling foreign languages "gibberish". -Then they complain that the chat rooms have been "going bad". New members are pressured to subordinate to the chat cliques gatekeepers. Can only imagine that this cliquesh behavior can alienate new members, especially people from foreign countries with limited English. *** In contrast, many members have successfully found their marital partners on this site. It's not the chat that's the problem, it's probably you.*** -There's also rumors of suicides because of the bullying in the chat rooms. Long time members here have tried to dispute it claiming it as false. But we may never know. Perhaps Jesus will reveal it someday. Note: If this profile ever gets banned, know that whoever reports this profile has gotten in the way of a "praying for healing" and "praying for the singles" ministries. There are sick people who visit the chat rooms that get bullied--instead of getting prayed for. Post Reply
DatingGuru View Profile History	Dating Advice For Chat Room Members Only Posted : 15 May, 2024 10:11 AM Now, for the dating advice: - When you associate with the bullies in the chat rooms, you're likely turning off potential mates that may be observing you. Pick better friends-especially those who are kind to everyone. Kind people will likely not stay single for too long. They leave this site and the chat rooms are left with the same chat gatekeeper/bullies who been here for many years. -Furthermore, there are members that visit here who are already successful in dating IRL. They may just be looking for potential mates for their single friends who are not members of this site. You may have been losing good opportunities because you decided to subordinate to the gatekeepers of the chat rooms. -You know this. You really shouldn't get dating advice from chat members here who have been single (and on this site) for too many years. -For those who are trying to marry someone from the USA, you missed many chances. We actually have a vetted group of singles who want to marry from your country. Once again, you should pick better friends who actually have communities of mature minded single Christians. Post Reply
DatingGuru View Profile History	Dating Advice For Chat Room Members Only Posted : 15 May, 2024 10:23 AM Apologies in advance for not replying to your messages. We're busy doing ministry in other platforms. We do plan to make a short movie or streaming of cyber bullying. If you've been bullied on this site, feel free to send a message. Or if you're a screenwriter, please reach out. We have a full crew with 100s of imdb credits and years in the film industry. In case this profile is banned, please feel free to post your bully stories here. We will check once in a while and possibly contact you. Post Reply
rbj66 View Profile History	Dating Advice For Chat Room Members Only Posted : 30 May, 2024 08:06 AM One of the first things i noticed in a chat is the cliqueyness, if that's a word. It is now . One person disagrees with you and more come to their aid wrong or not, because you know, bullying. I got jumped on as soon as i commented on a "private conversation" on a public forum because they didn't know me. Yeah, okay, that flies. Of course i jumped back. Keep in touch here. I am interested. Post Reply
rbj66 View Profile History	Dating Advice For Chat Room Members Only Posted : 19 Jun, 2024 05:22 AM And just because someone is kind and acts like a peacemaker in a chat room doesn't mean they won't act like someone else outside of it in a personal relationship and thrive on creating dissension and telling you how its gonna be 🤨 Post Reply