I am a fan of love stories ever since, from fairy tales when I was young to romantic movies and novels that I indulge myself every now and then :dunce:. Yet I do believe that this kind of love stories are far fetch ones from the real stories that I hear and see every day.:angeldevil:
I don't believe with, �Love at first sight�, :hearts:maybe "Lust at first sight" would do :rolleyes:. I know that I don't have any proof with this accusation, but my intuition says that most men :peace:do feel that way whenever they see a lady with a curvaceous body, or a face that could be a good cover for men�s magazines :rolleyes:. I have this habit of observing men from a distance how they look from head to toe when such a lady is passing by :glow:. Science would say its normal, raging testosterone hormones are the culprit of such reaction :devil:. I work in a medical field :nicenurse:and somehow there's some sort of truthfulness on that, testosterone is the sex drive for any human species. So women let us not be fooled with that saying. :nahnah:
Another thing, �Love is blind�, :hearts:somehow I do agree with this. I have witnessed some relationships who are somewhat blinded with their emotions other than their capacity to see objectively the situation they are into. One example is domestic violence :devil:happening to some women. The physical and verbal abuse that they are getting from their boyfriends, husbands, or partners. Psychology would say that mostly that kind of unhealthy relationship has a cycle. The man beats his wife, the wife get scared, and then the husband feels sorry, he would make peace with his wife, the wife is so touched and forgive her husband, and then the husband feels bad again, beat his wife, and so on...a never ending cycle. :boxing:These women think that their men would change because they don�t mean it when they hurt them, got out of control that�s why they did such a thing. These women are blinded with false love, because real love is patient and it is kind. :angel:
�And they live happily ever after," :party:this is the usual ending for most of the fairy tales that I have watched when I was young. But as I matured, I realize that there's no such a thing! One reason is the increasing rate of divorce and annulment all over the world. Mostly the cause is infidelity, and at my present age I don't get why most of these couple are not contented for each other could offer. Are age, money, beauty, body, sex, some of the factors why most of these marriages fall down? :toomuch: Where do love promises, to have and to hold go? Are old love emotions and memories for each other difficult to relive again? :ribbit:
Sometimes I'm not sure if unconditional love do exist for a woman seeking someone to love, :purpleangel:it's like everyone is getting married for the sake of being with someone, falling in love for the sake of experience and to be labelled to be in a relationship. :hearts: The more I see reality taking its place over fantasy; the more I realize that somehow true love is the most elusive thing to find, very lucky for those who got it already. :purpleangel:
It's not just beauty that instantly attracts people, sometimes it will be the way a person interacts and treats those around them that gives an aura that makes you want to be with them. A person that is not just out for themselves will spot qualities such as empathy and generosity in another person and see them as a person to look up to not just to be with.
When people are married for a while life can get in the way and make them forget what they have. Relationships need to be worked at so that we don't forget who we are and who our spouses are.
Had Jesus forgotten after 30 years on earth that he was the Son of God he would have been tempted to turn a stone into bread or worst still bow down to the devil to have dominion over the earth. He would have wanted the power to end all the suffering in the world there and then which he would have had. If he had doubted he really was the Son of God it would have looked like a good deal, but praise the Lord he did not forget even in his state of weakness from 40 days in the desert without food.
Doubt is the beginning of sin, had Adam and Eve not doubted Gods word sin wouldn't have entered the world. If couples didn't doubt their love for each other they wouldn't sin against each other and wreck their marriages.
when ive joined this site i am hopeful to find my GOD given match here coz its a christian dating site but ive been here for a month and i still havent met him...hopeful turned to hopeless LOL
When it comes to understanding and finding true love, I think the following information by Luminita Saviuc will be helpful.
J. Martins
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LOYALTY and DEVOTION: The Way to Show True Love!!!
By LUMINITA SAVIUC
�Loyalty and devotion lead to bravery. Bravery leads to the spirit of self-sacrifice. The spirit of self-sacrifice creates trust in the power of love.� ~ Morihei Ueshiba
"Showing loyalty and devotion to the person next to you when everything is going well, when both of you and your partner are happy, healthy and well, can be an easy thing to do. But what happens when times get tough? What happens when sickness and depression comes knocking at your door, and one person has to give more than the other? What happens when you or your partner have to become the simultaneous caregiver, breadwinner and maintain the household? Will your love and devotion continue to be offered as freely and as easily as it used to?
"In this heart warming video we are reminded that love is a verb, and that if we truly love the person next to us as much as we say we do, we will be there for them � in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health, taking good care of them and making sure they feel loved and cared for."
To Watch the Video Visit:> http://www.purposefairy.com/78618/loyalty-and-devotion-the-way-to-show-true-love/
