Author	Thread: How to Improve Chances of Finding a Spouse Here
Admin	How to Improve Chances of Finding a Spouse Here Posted : 26 Dec, 2014 10:17 PM How to Improve Chances of Finding a Spouse Here: 1. Be friendly. Confrontations (especially online) do not project wisdom (or strength). Winning friends is much more productive and practical than gaining enemies. 2.Treat everyone like brothers and sisters in Christ. Don't try to date someone just to get a chance--that screams out "desperation". You are likely to get rejected--such a timewaster. (See #1: "Winning friends is much more productive...") 3.Be Attractive. How? First, be happy and content. People are drawn to confidence and happiness. Eating and exercising healthier also helps a lot. Being in healthy shape projects "I care about myself and my future mate, so I will work hard to be in my best health. I would not want my future spouse to ever have the burden of illnesses later on." (Hint: Eat a kosher diet according to the Bible or maybe better, go vegan) 4.Why listen to my advice when there are so many advices here? You will know them by their fruits. I joined this site with the intention of treating every women like sisters (instead of trying to date them). And to make the short story long, love found me here. And we are planning to get married soon. 5. Most importantly, pray unceasingly for your future spouse. You will realize how important that is someday. *Really want to help you, but you first have to humble yourself to ask for help. Feel free to reply here with your perceived flaws and weaknesses. We can pray together.* Do not reprove a scoffer, or he will hate you, Reprove a wise man and he will love you. Give instruction to a wise man and he will be still wiser, Teach a righteous man and he will increase his learning. -Proverbs 9:8-9 Post Reply
View Profile History	How to Improve Chances of Finding a Spouse Here Posted : 29 Dec, 2014 04:43 PM These advices are good but I wondered why he was banned... Was it for a good reason? Yes! It was and I believe it, in faith. Thanks! To Mods and Admins. Post Reply
View Profile History	How to Improve Chances of Finding a Spouse Here Posted : 29 Dec, 2014 06:12 PM 6. Do not be hateful. People usually do not like to be around negative or toxic individuals. It will show in their words. 7. Be Forgiving. There are some in this chat who might have autism, social intelligence issues or some other challenges. Jesus teaches us to be strong enough to forgive and love others. Post Reply