Author	Thread: Can we be friend after i told him i loved him
Admin	Can we be friend after i told him i loved him Posted : 16 Nov, 2014 01:51 AM I met a guy and we talked about one month and i found out that we had a lot in common. I could see myself in the future with him. I decided to tell him how i felt but he politely told me that he didn't feel the same. I used to go to christian activities that he organises. Two weeks of that i met him and we talked about the next activity he would make in two weeks. I told him i would go but i'm not sure because i still have feelings for him but i really like the activities and i made friends there. I'm scared that he finds a girlfriend and that i'm hurt but he also told me about leaving the country. I don't know whether i should continue to see him or cut off completely with him. Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	Can we be friend after i told him i loved him Posted : 16 Nov, 2014 06:31 AM Sweetheart, How you doing? I think it's for your own good that you cut off completely especially since it's still early days. You don't have to play strong and prove anything to anyone! Since you know for a fact that you currently won't be able to bear seeing him with other girls, avoid exposing yourself around him. You are still hurt and vulnerable, Getting over something that has taken time to develop, will surely take as much time to work on overcoming. He was already in your system through your thoughts and several conversations you had with him. You connected during those biblical activities that you both partaked in together. Could have been a spiritual intimacy than a physical connection, still... You connected anyway! Be patient with yourself please dear sis. Give yourself enough time to adapt to that sudden rejection no matter how polite it was presented to you. It still was rejection! Go through whatever time frame it takes you to embrace the paint so you can work on putting it behind you. Exposing yourself in his presence I doubt it's gonna do you any good, atleast not now dear. You don't have to prove anything to him or anyone else for that matter. You're currently hurting... Focus on getting through that! I'm glad you can talk about it, That's a first step of healing Post Reply
View Profile History	Can we be friend after i told him i loved him Posted : 16 Nov, 2014 06:56 AM Thanx for this message my sweet sissy Post Reply
View Profile History	Can we be friend after i told him i loved him Posted : 21 Nov, 2014 08:45 PM Cut him... Remember, you must be happy that you only lost a few weeks than a few months and years. Most Guys will say what you want to hear. I get you put yourself out there and still have emotions, but the best way to get over lingering emotions is to find someone else.. If a guy really likes you, you will know it. He will lead by his words but don't believe it all, make sure their are actions that back it up. Let me know if this helps or have any other questions. Post Reply
View Profile History	Can we be friend after i told him i loved him Posted : 22 Nov, 2014 10:54 PM Hi thanx for the message. I have decided not to see him again. It's hard because we live in the same city :) but anyway if i see him it's not willingly. Time is helping me to get over it. Post Reply
ChromeplatedHeart View Profile History	Can we be friend after i told him i loved him Posted : 25 Nov, 2014 10:52 AM Hugs to you across the oceans. Post Reply
View Profile History	Can we be friend after i told him i loved him Posted : 27 Nov, 2014 09:03 AM Thanx chrome :) Post Reply