Author	Thread: Why the nice girls like bad boys
Admin	Why the nice girls like bad boys Posted : 7 May, 2014 11:41 AM It's not that girls like bad boys but it's mostly bad boys that approach them. When we are interested in nice guys, it's not that they are not interested but most of them are shy and don't have high self esteem so instead of being frank they prefer to think that they are unworthy and to back off. So girls fall in the arms of men that dare to move even if they are not the best and are sometimes the worst. Be careful guys i'm not saying to go directly to a girl and say: I love you. She will back off directly. You must learn the signs first. If she stares at you, smiles and so on. You'll see in the eyes. Talk to her and try to touch her(not where it's inappropriate) but the arms, the hands, the hair.... And ask her out without the i love you thing. Dare guys! because sometimes girls just wait for that. Even if you are rejected at least you won't live with regrets. And GIRLS show guys that you are interested to them, encourage them. Smile, try to talk. Don't be scared if he's not interested you're not gonna die. As Pink said just because it burns doesn't mean you gonna die, you gotta give up and Try Try Try Post Reply
View Profile History	Why the nice girls like bad boys Posted : 7 May, 2014 11:35 PM The type that falls for "bad boys" are simply over-romantic short sighted fools in my view. But this is great actually, weeds out the bad apples for the rest of us. This might sound judgmental but I rather doubt anyone that continually falls for fake charms to the point of being a masochist is worth my effort. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why the nice girls like bad boys Posted : 8 May, 2014 08:24 AM There is another situation where girls look for abusive boyfriends because they had an abusive father. When you are a teenage girl you are attracted to bad boys but during adulthood girls flee from those guys. We all seek security. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why the nice girls like bad boys Posted : 8 May, 2014 08:24 AM There is another situation where girls look for abusive boyfriends because they had an abusive father. When you are a teenage girl you are attracted to bad boys but during adulthood girls flee from those guys. We all seek security. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why the nice girls like bad boys Posted : 8 May, 2014 09:58 AM Well, you can't accuse teenagers of having great sense I suppose. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why the nice girls like bad boys Posted : 17 May, 2014 09:37 PM I think, this whole dating and falling in love business is like shooting a rocket to the moon. The point is we have control over who we talk to, who we pick as friends, but once we fall in love, we lose control. Love leads to marriage just like a waterslide leads into a pool. Likewise, while the rocket is on the groun, you have complete control over it, but once it leaves the ground, it is on its own. And you can only hope that you aimed it in the right direction, that it ascending at the right angle and right speed, etc. Picking a partner for life is a very scary thing, because what if you pick the wrong person? There's no "undo" button. So, if you hook up with the wrong person and fall in love, you get married, and then divorce. I talked to several people in here and on Facebook, and my experience has been that divorced people are a lot wiser and smarter than people who have never been married. Those who are divorced know far more about what to look for and how to pick a partner than those who are doing it for the very first time. So, I wouldn't say that "nice girls like bad boys" instead I would say that "ignorant girls like bad boys," and then they divorce. Once they have that life experience behind them, they no longer pick bad boys! Life is a hard teacher. Some learn faster than others. Some people learn from others' mistakes. And some learn from their own mistakes. Many girls here, and even my mom, say that their sole criteria was "he should be a Christian who has a relationship with Jesus." And I was like "that's all!?!? that's it???" I couldn't believe I heard it right. I mean relationship with Jesus is relative. It has different meaning to different people. I like to have a much more precise definition. For example, I want to marry someone who has never been in jail. You can have a relationship with Jesus in a prison cell. See how loose this definition is? If you just want someone who has a relationship with Jesus, then anybody can pass that test. You might marry an ex-murderer who claims to have a relationship with Jesus. Lol So, I think people have no clue how to choose the right friends, how to choose a marriage partner, etc. I have no idea myself. I doubt my own judgments in this area. And I am afraid of falling in love, because it's like shooting for the moon. If you make the wrong calculations early on and you aim just a little bit in the wrong direction, you could miss the moon by 20,000 miles and never set foot on the moon, but instead you could fly into outer space. Choosing our friends is a very huge decision, and many people don't use any kind of screening process to filter out the bad ones from the good ones. That's why nice girls like bad boys and nice boys like bad girls. :P Post Reply
View Profile History	Why the nice girls like bad boys Posted : 17 May, 2014 09:45 PM So, my point is girls don't necessarily have to pick a boy who approaches them. Many smart girls are picky. They are very careful and screen their potential friends. Just because a guy is a "bad boy" who is bold and walks up to a girl doesn't mean he is going to get her, because it is her decision as well. If she has no filters than, yes, bad boys get nice girls. But it doesn't have to be that way. It often happens that way because girls have no filter. They just like whoever is nice and charming and has a relationship with Jesus. Lol Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Why the nice girls like bad boys Posted : 18 May, 2014 09:15 PM I've noticed that girls also have a tendency to think they can change a person, turn a bad boy into a good boy. That is a dangerous game though, however well-intentioned or hopeful the girl is. And before anybody says that's not the case, I know many of these girls personally, and most of the literature and film being fed to young girls is made up of stories like that, the girl tames the bad boy and they live happily ever after. :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	Why the nice girls like bad boys Posted : 18 May, 2014 10:24 PM Yes, exactly. A Walk To Remember is one such movie. :P Post Reply
View Profile History	Why the nice girls like bad boys Posted : 19 May, 2014 10:25 PM Just focus on being happy, carefree, and fun loving like Frank Sinatra or Dean Martin. Who cares if some one thinks you're good or bad, or likes you or doesn't like you? If you do what makes you happy none of that stuff matters and it is what makes you most attractive anyway. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why the nice girls like bad boys Posted : 1 Jun, 2014 04:15 PM This is what I read somewhere. Not sure if it's true or not. But there might be some truth in it: "A 19 year old girl told me the best advice ever. 'No matter what, a woman will always try to dominate her man (she doesn't even know why), always by little acts that are subservient that become bolder. The man's job is to never let her dominate him. once he does, its over. she will move on to someone else. he will be boring to her.' It's what's called the bad boy attraction. The bad boy will never be dominated and the nice guy will always be replaced." Post Reply

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