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Hisjoymypeace

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Posted : 6 May, 2014 07:08 PM

....is what's written in a person profile, no matter how creative, vague or detailed, enough to gather up enough courage to send a message? What really inspires, beyond the pic, to take that leap of faith?

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Posted : 7 May, 2014 12:56 AM

Hello dear!



With me it had far less to do with what was written in the profile, but rather more of what reflected from his energy when he interacts in the forum. Jesus said that, "Our mouth peaks from the abundance of our hearts"



Profiles are well written sis. They very loaded with details of how and what one is seeking and hoping to find here, and there's nothing wrong in that, though our true reflection manifests right here in the forum. Its disappointing seeing grown ups in terms of age behaving in a certain confusing manner in a way that makes you question ones level of maturity let alone being a christian at all?



That is why I didn't put much effort in befriending fellows who do not partake in the forum. Trust me what's written in his profile may/will surely differ from his reactions and attitude, keeping in mind that what reflected in the forum flows from the abundance of the heart. That tells a lot about a man claiming to be the man of God. "You shall know them by their fruits"



I'm more inspired by ones energy and attitude to finally reach out, not claims written in profiles of how one loves God while manifesting arrogance and bitterness when interacting with God's people in the forum, the very God that you've claim to love so much yet unable to treat His people right, people created in His own image and likeness..? Something in not on in that.







Haven't you heard from Amstel? There's something I wanna share with you both but I'll wait for him to reach out, unless you don't mind me sending you while waiting for him? Our discussion is very fruitful to me.



Much love to you sis!!

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Posted : 7 May, 2014 11:22 AM

You know I'm always inspired by your replies my friend(smile)! And you are 100% correct......to get a true since of someone's mindset and even a small glimpse of their hearts, is to have some type of consistent, open dialogue with them, which thank God has been provided for us here on the forums!



I just find it amazing however that with ease many can converse analytically and sensibly here, but to just simply reach out and pen a few words to someone they may be attracted to or even simply admire.......well is obviously challenging(smile). I've only deduced that because of the many repeated views I've gotten here from certain individuals, but to date have yet to just reach out and simply say "hi"! I guess maybe I'll have to do the honors(smile)!! Just amazing........



And no I haven't gotten anything from Amstel lately, but if you would like to forward to me something you've written, please feel free to do so! God bless my sister.

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Posted : 19 May, 2014 11:01 PM

Pretty much just the pic and the summary. It's really not a whole lot different from real life. You SEE some one who LOOKS attractive and try to find a way to get to know them better from there.

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Posted : 20 Jul, 2014 10:58 AM

Something that tells me more about herself rather than lists what she thinks she wants in a man. Something that makes her unique but does not fit into the "hair coloured blond to be different/wild/crazy/whatever" type fake nonsense... nvm that if everybody does the same thing to be different they end up being averagely foolish.

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