Author	Thread: when to throw in the towel on love
ChromeplatedHeart View Profile History	when to throw in the towel on love Posted : 26 Mar, 2014 01:15 AM How long do you wait or look before you throw in the towel on love? Post Reply
Stephanieskitten View Profile History	when to throw in the towel on love Posted : 26 Mar, 2014 03:47 PM I don't set any time limit... well for one thing I'm young and for another I've found that you can focus on so many more wonderful things like loving yourself when you take the time to develop yourself and your hobbies and stuff you become even more desirable and since you aren't desperately looking you'll come across as more comfortable and in turn more likable. It's not a perfect formula... esp since again I'm young and have lots of time but I figure if I love myself and keep my heart open yet guarded God will work out the rest of the details. Post Reply
View Profile History	when to throw in the towel on love Posted : 26 Mar, 2014 04:38 PM Maybe the question should be: Is it Gods will for me to be married or single? The answer is not always yes.:angel: God bless ya:goofball: Post Reply
View Profile History	when to throw in the towel on love Posted : 27 Mar, 2014 07:10 PM It seems like you've been on this site for a while now. I've seen you here in the forums before. I just went to your profile and it's nearly blank and you have no real pictures of yourself. Women with profiles like yours will never get a response from me. If you can't put as much effort into your profile as I have into mine then I don't think you are really interested in finding someone. Your just, as your profile says, "lurking". If your serious about finding someone then you need to be serious about your profile. If you don't know what to write then go look at some other women's profiles or ask the women here for help. Even the guys will help you. And post some nice pictures of yourself. Have a friend take some and don't use "selfies". You might be shy but you have to have a profile that communicates what you want and who you are looking for. Post Reply
View Profile History	when to throw in the towel on love Posted : 28 Mar, 2014 06:55 AM hey Amazing Chrome :-) guess who is back? my answer to your query is NEVER SAY NEVER :-). I was told that no one gets surprised to receive the gift of single blessedness. In fact, it is an answered prayer to the recipients. As long as you desire for a "partner in life" then it shall be given unto you. As to when you would keep on wanting for one? We can ask God to take care of putting those in us and to take away anything that is not His. When the desire in gone, it is Him at work--burying it in the sea of forgets. God bless you dear. Stay cool, fun and awesome :-) PS:I hope to see u and Sheilannie next month. I'm staying in Robinsons Tower for 2 weeks. Post Reply
View Profile History	when to throw in the towel on love Posted : 6 Apr, 2014 01:35 AM If it's your hearts desire then that is your destiny. God puts the desires in our hearts for a reason. He is not a cruel God. Post Reply
ChromeplatedHeart View Profile History	when to throw in the towel on love Posted : 7 Apr, 2014 01:42 AM :) ? :dunce: weekend, i hope. :waving: ... Post Reply
View Profile History	when to throw in the towel on love Posted : 7 Apr, 2014 06:21 PM We don't ever really quit on love - we just go through phases where it weighs on our minds lighter than other times :) You used to have a nice profile photo of yourself (I assume) - why have you replaced it with a meaningless image? Post Reply
heart4God4u View Profile History	when to throw in the towel on love Posted : 8 Apr, 2014 03:06 PM Tiny, I so agree with you. God desires us to be mated. But it's a matter for us to look for in the SEASON for which God's will for us to have it. Sometimes we need to learn to love and accept ourselves, more, before such a season presents itself. I think that we as women get those seeds planted of becoming a wife or mother. The question begs, when planted in the right season, will it give fruit? In all things, let us seek God's will in everything we do. Sometimes it a bitter bill when we realize, that maybe God has me single for a reason. In the end, we must also realize, that to God be the Glory. If you are offering yourself to a man, shouldn't the relationship come with God's blessing? Too often are we consumed with single-it is that lose the blessings on what God has us to do. Keep God at the center, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Post Reply
ChromeplatedHeart View Profile History	when to throw in the towel on love Posted : 13 Apr, 2014 10:26 PM @dkj - pictures are optional for lurkers :) :) Post Reply