Author	Thread: If You are a liar, it doesnt mean you are smarter
LunaDiya View Profile History	If You are a liar, it doesnt mean you are smarter Posted : 16 Feb, 2014 12:46 AM Dear Readers, I thought to share this experience with you maybe you can learn something from it or maybe make fun of me. Anyway this is the story i like to tell: I recently joined CDFF and a guy sent me private message and things kept moving smoothly but really fast. Anyway He asked for a bit more close contact and we exchanged phone numbers ( i was sure i am safe cause it is hard to reach me with any harm in my country far away from his) anyway he kept saying the sweetest words that any woman wish to hear. He even lied telling he asked admin on CDFF to block his account (which is blocked now) The exciting moment: He said he is going to come to my country to marry me next month. When i asked him for personal information to tell my parents about (my country tradition that parents ask about the groom to know if he is from decent family and person or not before accepting the proposal) He got so angry saying i dont trust him!!! How You could trust someone that doesnt trust You about his personal info and promising to make You their partner??!! I learnt to be more caution and i am grateful for my country traditions to help me find out this liar's game. Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	If You are a liar, it doesnt mean you are smarter Posted : 16 Feb, 2014 10:47 AM LunaDiya my sister, we all have our high expectations of meeting that "true man or women of God", so that together we can serve The Lord and love each other in this earth! But in that strong desire, we have to be very careful that we are guided and directed by God! I respect the traditions of your country and culture and thank God that you adhered to them when you were going thru this situation! Let God help you to discern the true intentions of those you'll come in contact with, whether here or on any other dating site. Don't let this incident discourage you and I pray God's perfect will and His best in your search for true happiness! Be blessed. Post Reply
CuriousGeorge View Profile History	If You are a liar, it doesnt mean you are smarter Posted : 16 Feb, 2014 09:13 PM to propose to someone in (what sounds like) a few months is ridiculous. adding that you two have never met before? even more ridiculous. Post Reply
Lukia^ View Profile History	If You are a liar, it doesnt mean you are smarter Posted : 18 Feb, 2014 02:31 AM LunaDiya, Thanks for sharing this. When you see things moving too fast just be careful. Let no one lie to you that he can propose even before you meet physically.Very few guys will promise to come to your country until they are very sure. Most of these guys who move like that are scammers and they come in all colours.May God guide you in your search. Always when you meet someone pray about it and God will give you discernment.You will be able to discern whether he is true or not. Don't allow your mind or heart to rush either in deed or thoughts. Most of all don't give up,believe that your creator has very good plans for your future. Plans of GOOD and not EVIL. God bless you sister. Post Reply
View Profile History	If You are a liar, it doesnt mean you are smarter Posted : 20 Feb, 2014 01:17 PM It's very sad indeed! I have been here 3 weeks , I tell you sister I have heard sweet words! Satan also comes as Angel of light with the right word! I am glad you held out to your convictions and culture. We need to just wait on GOD sure WORD especially when things are moving too fast. Normatter how emotional, or butterflies:hearts: we all feel at times, still WAIT ON GOD! Prayer/ Fast so often we are dealing with all kind of spirits on this site. I found it quite discouraging when I discovered the lies,but I am also reminded that there are honest good women/men out here. Thank you for sharing and I pray that GOD will grant your heart's desire. Post Reply
View Profile History	If You are a liar, it doesnt mean you are smarter Posted : 26 Feb, 2014 07:23 PM Hi! I�m sorry you were hurt. Perhaps you needed to be strong in that area, but that won�t make yu less vulnerable, according to my own personal experience. I have known of people who found the person they were seeking, because this is not at the corner and, pitifully, our culture doesn�t give what we sometimes have liked or DREAMED about (I�m just another daydreamer, here). I knew women who felt (and fell) in love with "someone". The time thet arrange to personally meet, they founded out they were actually loving a woman, instead of a man. So just imagine how they felt when meeting their "Mr Right". In my case, I have spent more than a year to realized I was wrong or that I made a wrong decision when choosing those I once chose (no regret: I learnt more). I had the chance to live with a Colombian woman, her in Venezuela and, when we moved to live in Colombia, I saw I chose another person I thought I had and, being honest, I wasn�t the man she wanted, the one she deeply desired, so we separated and went separated ways (She was the best person I had, untill now) but it took US two years to know we didn�t belong (and I wanted to live only with her. I wnated to get married. But we were too different: But God helped to sort that out). Don�t feeel discouraged! God knows you and your neeeds. If HE wants, He will give you that man, as a gift. Post Reply
genesis75 View Profile History	If You are a liar, it doesnt mean you are smarter Posted : 13 Mar, 2014 04:49 AM Agree..telling lies doesn't make you smarter, time will reveal the truth and whether you like it or not you will suffer the consequence of your action. What you sow, is what you reap. So do good and treat people right and equal. Sometimes, true love takes time to prove. If things went too fast, it means something is wrong. Post Reply
Stephanieskitten View Profile History	If You are a liar, it doesnt mean you are smarter Posted : 25 Mar, 2014 08:54 AM That sounds just like what happened to me! He even told me to delete my account here and I did but he never deleted his... now he has been harassing me via text and phone even though I asked him not to contact me anymore :( Post Reply