Author	Thread: Just wondering...
Pearloflife View Profile History	Just wondering... Posted : 10 Nov, 2013 12:33 PM I see on many CDFF profiles on the bottom of their profile the following "Appears on 4o members favorites lists" (or how many ever it is). When I see read this, I find it a bit of turn off. Is it just me or does anyone else feel this way when they see this? Post Reply
View Profile History	Just wondering... Posted : 10 Nov, 2013 04:58 PM Not really since they can't control who "Favorites" them. It is kinda dumb though and I could see why it would be a turn off. Not really sure what the point of that is. Post Reply
Lukia^ View Profile History	Just wondering... Posted : 11 Nov, 2013 05:39 AM Though i haven't been Favorited by anyone,i agree with Renov,no one has control over who favorites them. Post Reply
Pearloflife View Profile History	Just wondering... Posted : 11 Nov, 2013 09:58 AM I realize there is no control over someone favoring you. However, if someone is favored by so many, I kind of wonder why they would continue being on a dating site for a long time. Are they truly looking for a marriage partner or just looking for perfection (Christ is the only one I know who is and will be perfect) .....or is it just so they can feel like they are popular or appear to be actively dating? Also I wonder, how any people did they favor then was favored back?.... sort of a numbers ego game? Other Christian dating sites have a system where by if you have "favorite someone" a dot on a tab shows up to let you know your favorite(s) are on line. I like that type of feature as it helps with connecting and communication. Post Reply
View Profile History	Just wondering... Posted : 11 Nov, 2013 06:56 PM Sometimes it seems that some women would click on it to get the man's attention, it is like a lingering wink. But it doesnt guarantee a response. I guess we all have different reasons for putting people in our fave list. Post Reply
View Profile History	Just wondering... Posted : 13 Nov, 2013 01:16 AM "Favouriting" somebody may be done as some kind of bookmark if you want to find their profile again but not act on it right now. It can also be used to get someone's attention if you can't wink or message them due to a restriction they may have set such as age range. Post Reply
NRSV1953 View Profile History	Just wondering... Posted : 13 Nov, 2013 10:18 AM It is possible to 'hide' this on your profile by going to Account Settings and select "hide Favorite count on profile." Post Reply
Pearloflife View Profile History	Just wondering... Posted : 18 Nov, 2013 07:05 PM Thank you! Good to know this:) Post Reply
CuriousGeorge View Profile History	Just wondering... Posted : 20 Nov, 2013 08:35 AM ^ really? and your fav count still shows? Post Reply