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A little help please!.........
Posted : 29 Oct, 2013 11:03 PM

Is this site ment for other people and not me???

Why cant i get a serious man who is serious looking for a date?

I usually start a talk with someone and after few days he dissapear...

Is it because there are many ladies and he cant handle all of them?

Sometimes i think of delete my profile!!...help me guys

i value any advice!...

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Posted : 29 Oct, 2013 11:14 PM

Maybe a good man is worth waiting for

Don't you think dear sis?

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Posted : 30 Oct, 2013 01:16 AM

Maybe sissy!...but soon or later i will give up

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Posted : 30 Oct, 2013 03:08 AM

You've posted on onother forum that you're attracted to white guys, for a second I understood where you're coming from (I think)



Why white guys if I may ask?

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Posted : 30 Oct, 2013 07:14 PM

Tarm

Old saying.... Stop and smell the roses. To see this from a more Christian perspective. Don't pass up the blessings the God puts into your path as He grows you and your future spouse to be compatible with each other.



This probably doesn't apply to you but many people turn the search for a spouse (or their spouse) into a false idol. God is not who they seek before all else and misery is the result. I can testify to that from personal experience. r

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Posted : 30 Oct, 2013 11:35 PM

"....Misery is the result, I can testify from my own personal experience"

There we go dear brother

Just what I was seeking to hear. Why did you withheld your feedback from me on my other post about "divorced fellows" if it must have taken them that experience (failed marriege) to bring out the best in them?

I was hoping for such replies even if one is the cause of divorce (more based on divorce approved by God.)



Apart from more expenses maybe with kids from the previous relationship, and interactions with the ex-wife/husband. Why are people resistance from divorced fellows? I'll appreciate your feedback on this John.

If/when writting back dear please post your reply on my 'Isn't there anything good they might have learned from their experience?"

That is if at all you have something to share.

Don't mind me please, I'm here to learn and have learned so much already from wonderful fellows here willing to open up about issues of life.



Stay blessed John!

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Posted : 31 Oct, 2013 04:51 PM

God's timing is not our timing. If we get too I patient we may settle for the wrong mate. Use this for alarming experience.

I have learned more about myself, my views, my likes and dislikes, and how to interact with people better. I've gained some friends and learned how to deal with those who may oppose my views.

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Posted : 31 Oct, 2013 05:58 PM

Sissy

Sorry for missing that post. I do not read all of the threads and some when I do read... I see where the conversation is heading and do not think that I have anything to add or that my input would be appropriate. I enjoy interacting with ya'll most of the time but I have this voice in my head telling me "it's not about me" most of the time. So I read and try to learn and pray.

Hope that's OK. r

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Posted : 31 Oct, 2013 07:44 PM

John



Its ok dear I understand what you mean. And hey its not about anyone here, its about God and Him alone. As long as we keep our search rooted on He's word and principles will never go wrong. Its about Him here than anyone else. In future NEVER ever doubt your reply when i've asked something here. No answer is too 'stupid' in me, I believe you all have something great to offer..... Its all in how we interact with one onother,,, I enjoy healthy conversations were we don't react to one onother even when expressing our differences.



Thanks dear

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