Author	Thread: What about he's YOUNGER
Admin	What about he's YOUNGER Posted : 22 Oct, 2013 09:12 AM I'm actually struggling because i'm interested in someone who's younger than me. i've been praying hard for this to stop but i still dream and think of him. We see each other very often so it's hard. He's handsome, intelligent, he has a nice character, a good personality. we chat sometimes but it's obvious that he feels the same. he's like panicking when he talks to me, he tries to have conversations with me and the way he looks at me, i know he's interested too. It's actually seven years. Please guys HELP ME, anything Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	What about he's YOUNGER Posted : 22 Oct, 2013 01:39 PM Hello to you dear lady! Its always great hearing from you (ok I think I like you sis) I don't really have an answer to your question, i'll leave that to others who can be helpful in answering you. The reason i'm writing back to you, is simply cause we (you and I) seem to be almost in the same boat.... Its only a little difference. I haven't been challenged by guys my age of requirement. While some grown ups' (by number of years) when chatting with them on pity little things, you can tell that they still kids in adults body. (that's where the difference is in our cases) With you he's younger by age, yet you enjoy he's level of matuarity, versus me meeting grown ups by age when I know for a fact he's never gonna see me again. (the trick is to take their cell# if he's pesistant on seeing me again instead of giving my cell#) that's how I dismiss in a decent manner. I'd say give it a try dear... Cause the issue of age does turn into a problem at times, and matuarity comes by experiences and how one thinks, more than the# of years. Only you know what you're seeking for from your altimate partner, only you'll know when you've found it. With me a lack of depth in reasoning And lack of challenge puts me off completely. Challenge keeps me thinking outside the box (therefore i'm stretched and growing) it keeps me curious, fascinated, turned on (not in a sexual way or maybe I should say charmed) It worries me that I get bored with those of my age Can't be going out again with a grown up (if I should measure by# of years) Hope that was a little helpfull Post Reply
View Profile History	What about he's YOUNGER Posted : 22 Oct, 2013 01:48 PM Hey sisy thank you a lot about your answer. I like you very very much too. :) I have a very good friend who said to give a try too but I think I'm gonna wait for him to get older. I really like him and it's the first time that i feel a man has the same interest. he's so cute, he's really mature, he has been through a lot of things that's why. thank you so much for your reply. I hope you find a solution too because you are a nice girl and you deserve the best. I think that maturity is not a matter of age because i know men who are still babies in their head. Ask GOd for help, he's gonna lead the person to you. Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	What about he's YOUNGER Posted : 22 Oct, 2013 01:59 PM Glad I was helpful You're most welcomed darling Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	What about he's YOUNGER Posted : 22 Oct, 2013 05:15 PM Good evening sand123! What I'm rather happy to hear in your last response is that you've decided to "wait"........period! Whether it's until he's older or better yet when The Lord (thru prayer and meditation) gives you the direction needed, you can never go wrong with patiently waiting on solid, good guidance! Hey in the meantime, if possible, enjoy the building of a friendship with this young man(smile)! That in itself can be a journey that can reap wonderful rewards! I hope this helps. God bless you my sister! Post Reply
View Profile History	What about he's YOUNGER Posted : 23 Oct, 2013 02:26 AM Hi thisjoy thank you for your reply, this is exactly what i'm gonna do, because i don't want to rush and to be stuck in a bad relationship. if it's God's will, he'll me there. thank you for your advice. Post Reply