The harder the experiences we endure being single, the more we should appreciate and value the love GOD brings to us in that special mate. BLESS JESUS!
ALL GLORY BE TO GOD THE FAITHFUL FATHER THROUGH JESUS CHRIST HIS BELOVED SON, BY THE POWER OF THE GLORIOUS AND BLESSED HOLY GHOST. :) AMEN.
You watch any progrems you want on tv at any time you want without having to consider the other part who wants to watch something different from what you're watching.
You find stuff just where you've left them.
You don't cook when too tired after a long working day, you fix yourself something convenient & easy to prepare so you can rest.
Things last you longer cause you're not sharing with anyone (don't mean this sentance in a bad way dear)
You go out with friends till late sometimes, without having to answer to anyone why coming home this late.
There are so many benefits in being single friend, though there are hard times also,
Last time I needed help with the glob that just wouldn't switch onn,
I wished I had a male person close by who can help me connect a new glob or find out what's wrong with the plak
You walk around naked in the house after you've taken bath, without anyone being annoyed at your nakedness or rushing you to put clothes on cause friends could be coming inn.
If you are single and your heart's desire is to have a mate,thank God and pray for a mate.God created Eve for Adam coz He saw the need for him to have a mate.That is why as much as we have all being single,there is always a void in us which can only be filled by a mate.
If we pray and wait upon the Lord He will bring to us mates who satisfy our hearts and we shall be happy.
sissygirl
I agree with you,there is so much freedom in being single but there is satisfaction in having someone caring and minding about us and us to them.
There's a void that can only be met by that special someone.
Though I really have no interntions of having someone just yet, i'm loving my space right now & intending to enjoy every little things that I could miss when there's someone around.
For example dear:
I've challenged my health through out the month of August, I was in Daniel's fasting. Nothing havey in my meals like pap, stump, rice etc
No oily fried food too rather grield.
I've been eating only veg & fruits (even those ones I would never have eaten since they not my favorites) i'd prepare them nice in a way that i enjoy them, then drink juice instead of the coffee & tea that I love most, which are first activities when I get home. Before even taking a bath or deciding what am I gonna eat, I decide while drinking a cup of tea. Got eddicted when I prepared one for my grand mother while staying with her during my teenage days. She wanted me to make my self a cup of tea too when making one for her. (i'd enjoy her company when having girls talk about anything to know about girls & relationships)
I'd drink coffee if I have interntions of retirering late for the day, if I'm gonna be reading something that needs concentration.
I think if I had a partner he would have wanted havey meals with he's steak fried & spicy with chakalaka and a glass of Coke (only kidding dear) but some of the things I suddenly decide to do/try out, could not work for the ather part.
4weeks was long only eating fruits & veg but it was certainly worth than the junk I always eat.
What i'm still battling to adapt with, is drinking water, atleast 8cups a day. That one is a little harder for me, but i'll get it right with time.
