Author	Thread: 80% commited to doin things God's way..will leave room for problems in a marriage
Admin	80% commited to doin things God's way..will leave room for problems in a marriage Posted : 10 Aug, 2013 07:13 PM not a marriage consellor...but I know that to be true : )... not only in marriage but any relationship...a quality I would definitly want in my wife...if a problem were to arise... one would have the maturity..to admit where theye were wrong and align thersesves what Our Father though of it...or on the other end..bein mature enough to forgive...or both just walkin in the spirit..where few arise as possible... but if your mate doesn't possess that quality..and leaves room for the flesh to stiill be in control in there lives to some extent... there's always gonna be something... Post Reply
View Profile History	80% commited to doin things God's way..will leave room for problems in a marriage Posted : 11 Aug, 2013 05:23 AM Amen brother, its a matter of taking enough time to get to truly know a individual to see if their weakness is tolarible. To many women rush into relationship only to find an abusive man to appear. If us men take the leadership role and give our selves enough time to prove out the relationship. That we can communicate with our women and they in turn can follow our leadership their would be no frustrations. Frustration leads to anger and anger leads to abuse. Post Reply
ChristianArtsy View Profile History	80% commited to doin things God's way..will leave room for problems in a marriage Posted : 11 Aug, 2013 07:32 AM @ThruHim, agreed. I've seen bitterness, manipulation, unwillingness to forgive and a controlling spirit completely destroy the order of leadership in a home. Last I heard they 'hate' each other, but will die together after spending many decades of living unhappy lives. But they met in church and 3 weeks later, they were married. Got to know who you marry, and very importantly for women, since our husbands are the leaders in the home, we have to know who we entrust with that, you shouldn't just give a man responsibility because he's cute and knows where to locate scripture. Does he understand it, is he working on understanding it?? Post Reply
View Profile History	80% commited to doin things God's way..will leave room for problems in a marriage Posted : 11 Aug, 2013 10:36 AM Their are many good and sincere ladies here on this site but they would not be right for me and I would not be right for them. This goes for all of us. Sincerity does not a relationship make. It is in the details of life and the relating or agreement of those details. The unity of faith goes much deeper than just believing the bible. Even the decerment of Gods will can be various with two individuals. That is why we have skism here in this site agmonst us. We all see life from varying perspectives and if we fail to understand eachothers perspectives and know they agree we will be in for a world of hurt. I learned this the hard way as have others here. Post Reply
View Profile History	80% commited to doin things God's way..will leave room for problems in a marriage Posted : 11 Aug, 2013 11:44 AM 100 percent, chemistry...and the right attitude toward the grey areas : ) that may be when you don't know where ones perspectives right..but you don't know it's wrong either : ) Post Reply