Author	Thread: Mr Perfect/ Ms Perfect does not exist.......
Jillanie View Profile History	Mr Perfect/ Ms Perfect does not exist....... Posted : 9 Jun, 2013 01:15 AM Book of Quote Never leave a true relationship for few FAULTS that can be resolved or ignored. Remember there's no one who is correct or perfect in everything. When time comes when you are giving up on someone because of his or her imperfections, first take a look at yourself and question yourself if you�re flawless in everything, Then think of the next person you�re gonna date, won't h/she find you also imperfect somewhere? Then how will you feel when he or she dumps you because of that? What if you find him/her worse than your ex? Will you also dump that person cos h/she doesn�t match with what you want? Then when will that habit of picking and dropping lovers end? Think of the years that are going, you growing up, you are losing each and every chance that comes you way simply because you are looking for the complete person! Your mates are getting married and settling down with their dudes and babes but for your case you're still in a hunt for the right person. My friends, there is no Mr. and Mrs. Perfect on earth. If you are thinking of letting go of your caring, patient, loving, understanding, trustworthy dude or babe, think twice prior you decide. You�re better off than many lonely or brokenhearted people out there. Someone is out there admiring your Man or woman and wishes to replace you one day. Someone is out there praying and campaigning for your break up, some are your friends pretending to be your best friends. Come on, solve those disagreements, give your lover privacy if it�s what he or she needs, if it needs ignoring some things please do so that you keep your relationship going on, and feel free to apologize when you�re in wrong, be a good listener, don�t entertain rumors that much, Make decisions on your own, use your brain and follow your heart. Be God fearing, Stick by your lover, appreciate what h/she sacrifices for you no matter it�s small "coz that is what h/she can afford. Be proud of your lover and make your relationship admirable by everyone. Post Reply
Lukia^ View Profile History	Mr Perfect/ Ms Perfect does not exist....... Posted : 10 Jun, 2013 05:22 AM Well said,i hope many here read this. Post Reply
View Profile History	Mr Perfect/ Ms Perfect does not exist....... Posted : 11 Jun, 2013 05:44 PM Yet all the while, society keeps telling us we deserve the best, don't settle for second best. Just listen to some of Madonna's songs! Those who are content with what they have are the happy ones. Post Reply
View Profile History	Mr Perfect/ Ms Perfect does not exist....... Posted : 12 Jun, 2013 11:36 AM so true. Mr perfect does exist, because even with his imperfection he'll be the perfect fit for you. Post Reply
Jillanie View Profile History	Mr Perfect/ Ms Perfect does not exist....... Posted : 16 Jun, 2013 02:57 AM There is no Mr/ Ms Perfect but God in all His wisdom has prepared the best for us.....We have to be expectant that the best is yet to come. Post Reply
View Profile History	Mr Perfect/ Ms Perfect does not exist....... Posted : 16 Jun, 2013 04:09 AM This whole concept is skewed because God uses evil people also to perform His will. My first wife was the right choice for me even though she caused me great suffering. You see God allowed me to marry her knowing she would be the very vessle I needed to humble me and draw me near to God. Their was no mistake in marrying her. This concept of a mistake flies in the face of Gods soviernty and will for our lives. Does God want us to equally yoked together? Absolutly well we were. We were two pride filled selfish crazy dysfunctional people who claimed Christ. Only my suffering drew me closer to God and hers pushed her away from God. The question is since God knows who is right for you, ask God to reveal this person in His timing. We began our relationship in the flesh and we ended our relationship in the flesh. When you begin a relationship in Spirit the you have unity. I know because I have found unity. We all look for intimacy. We all heard about make up sex,. Well their is truth to that in some way. When a man and a woman have conflict and they resolve conflict together the bond of intimacy grows in trust and love is further expressed and received. This can be done without physical contact. Their is a release when the pressure two feel over conflict is resolved and two find unity in understanding. Unconditional acceptance and forgiveness. We as individuals need to learn what intimacy really is practically. Now you know and now you can look for that kind of Godly intimacy that honors oneanother and God. Post Reply
View Profile History	Mr Perfect/ Ms Perfect does not exist....... Posted : 17 Aug, 2013 08:51 PM I'm a writer by profession and am awed at your anointed choice of words and imagery - I cut off several relationships in my 20s and 30s because of my own immaturity and feelings of worthlessness, truly hurting those gals who loved me - one of whom would actually have married me. But instead of taking time to work out my own mess while still keeping the relationship going, I simply pulled the plug. What a rotten decision! I was demanding 'perfection' of myself in order to feel worthy of her love and obviously could never meet such an impossible standard. Post Reply
rick130 View Profile History	Mr Perfect/ Ms Perfect does not exist....... Posted : 8 Jun, 2023 05:05 AM I agree. Post Reply