Ladies, let me explain why I said that title. It is a matter of imporantance as I saw in this website. So cliche. I see a problem with Christian ladies in this decade, the last, and the one before in 1990s and 1980s. Ever since I became born again in March 1988. I am spiritually 25 years now serving the LORD.
Now, after my disgusted seeing the evidence from the Christian sisters on this site as the same evident I saw in real life in churches I have been to. Sisters failed to see beyond my skin, my hair, my height, and my senses. Yes, I am Deaf, short at 5' 3", had gray hair since 18, and has a big soft heart. Maybe bit too soft.
I went through much personal discrimination from the female Believers of Jesus Christ because of one or all. I believe God is providing me the bride whom I can marry and have children. Yes, both: bride AND children. God promised me that way back before I truly accepted Christ as my LORD and Savior. This was in 1985 after fasting for 3 weeks from New Year's by not looking, thinking, and talking with women in means to give up on lust, desires, and thoughts of them so I can truly be blessed with a wife someday.
I wrote my testmony so I am not going to repeat this again. It would not give me room on this site anyway. Well, God promised after I prayed for clues according to Genesis chapter 24.
God said I will have my wife and I will have children. I have confirmations as well. Well, where is she? That is my point.
Now, I thank God for my shortness, deafness, gray hair, a little chubby, and a mind of my own that everyone says I am very very different. So different that people says I am chosen by God. Maybe scared of me being true Warrior for God. My full name translate into that. Not thinking of that by my parents but its true.
My name translates this, Warrior for God in Blood of Christ over the false christ.
I am ashame of you ladies because you are so judgemental on my appearance.. I was 23 in church in first few months and they told my own younger brother who is 2 years younger that they thought I was his father! I could not get dates because of that! Why? My gray hair!
Then dating was tough. I was trying to be so easy to let the ladies think they caught me but they used me, stole my car, nearly stabbed me, etc. Now, you understand why I am very sensititive and was hating to hear what you say that are offensive to me in the ask-a-girl forum why I could not get an American woman and instead I get a bunch of Filippinas interested in me.
I like to see attitude changes, ladies, be a Proverbs 31 woman. Let the man find a wife obtains favor in the LORD, Prov 18:22.
I am tired of females today are so liberal and too independent as well as so judgemental.. I may be too but for a good reason: to marry a woman to have childrne.
If a woman can not and or she is older, she should really look at the heading saying 18 to 42 only. Many do not but still look at my profile anyway. Did you all know that if you do look, you will have your screenname be labeled by the site and you will be viewed also?
Also I am tired of no replies from American women. I get often are, "Sorry, I do not think..."
Only one American who happened to be a Filipina I knew and we are friends. I knew her for 10 years. She found me on here and we caught up and talking..
But... I am not happy the result here.
I tried to be nice and now trying to be more like Crazy Eddie screaming in my profile to get your attention. Crazy Eddie was really an actor who was a pioneer in hawking on tv commercials that your crazy local auto dealer is doing on your screen in your hometown. Same format. I tried to be nice.. But now this is INSANEEEEE!!! Hahaha.
I tried Walt Disneyisque, tried Crazy Eddie, tried everything to aplease you ladies.. Americans please!
I am very pro-American to seek a wife from America. If not, I am sorry, another country could win out in the battle of my heart. And my relocation as well. Bringing my talents with me...
Ladies, in short, grow up!
I know I will get reported and that is fine with me. I got plenty of fishes in the sea to find.. likely another pond to go to.. (another website).
please take this out of love. Your reaction to women is what is causing your failure. The bible tells us that we are to see our wives as spotless vessles and show honor to them as the weaker vessles. It tells us that we are to love them. What I see displayed from you is hurt and your hurt causes you to do the exact opposite.
Until you learn how to approach Ladies with the heart of Christ you will continue to fail in finding a good godly woman.
I know you think it is your shortness, deffness and grey hair but honestly it is not. If you would like another man to talk with and get your frustrations out I am here.
Also, advice for ladies to really check the background and stories of guys here. A lot of them could be pretending to be Christians. For one thing, Christians I know have always lead a productive and fruitful lives. If all you hear are problems, broken live, unemployment, bankruptcy, divorce.. (of course, we all have our share of problems but most decent people do not live very problematic lives) you have to be asking yourselves why these men are losers if Christ promised us victory in our endeavors.
Advice for guys over 40 also:
You have to take care of yourselves. Most guys over 40 just look old. Plain old. Most guys here are undatable by society's standard. Physical attraction matters. Reality check: nobody can be married to someone that you do not find attractive enough to sleep with.
I am appalled at unemployed guys actively looking for partners. They have to be looking for employment first. Otherwise, they will just drag the women into their miserable lives. I feel sorry for these desperate women who will entertain kind of men.
First things first.Get right with God, get your lives in order, then plan for the other big things in life.
