Author	Thread: He/She should love God more than he loves you
divagurl View Profile History	He/She should love God more than he loves you Posted : 23 Feb, 2013 12:47 PM A few seconds ago, I decided that any guy who wishes to be my husband is sure going to have to go through a lot to be my husband. I mean, seriously, I don't have a huge list of things I want in a guy, but I am going to have to literally interrogate him about his Christianity. This is because I don't want a guy who says, "Yeah, I'm a Christian," and when I ask him why, he says because his parents are Christians. Not only is that not what I believe, it's just not Biblical. That obviously shows that you are just saying that you are a Christian, so that I will like you. I want my husband to love God before he even knows that I exist. Yes, that's right, I don't want to be the person my husband loves the most. Then what is he living for? Me. What happens when I die? He has nothing to live for. What happens if he dies? Then he won't know how awesome it is to love a perfect wonderful God. I am not perfect. So I want God to be the most important thing in our relationship, because he is perfect throughout my many imperfections.. I don't want to be married to a non-Christian. Even if a person has good morals, I don't want to marry them, because God is amazing. I want to share the deep bond of knowing and living for Christ with my husband. I want to grow deeper with God and be able to impact His kingdom with my significant other. I just wanted to share this especially with the ladies, know this- as your man grows to love Jesus more, he will grow to love you more. For our love for people flows out of Christ�s love for us. If you and your man can�t soar in the Spirit, when the force of your love for another is tested by the pull or gravity of the world, your union will not be able to survive. So you decide How much is your life worth? How much is your love worth? You will be able to accept only what you believe you deserve. God Himself calculated the worth of your love and decided it was worth His life. He now pledges you His love for eternity. Yes, Jesus sets the example for all others to follow when He paid a ransom for His bride. Should you expect less from a mortal man? Throughout the Biblical age, men were willing to pay the cost for the hand that they desired. The truth of the matter is, everyone knows that anything worth having, costs. And no one gets a ride in this life for free. �And He said to him, �You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment.�Matthew 22:37-38 �The friendship of the Lord is for those who fear Him, and He makes known to them His covenant� Psalm 25:14 Post Reply
MyPrincessButterfly View Profile History	He/She should love God more than he loves you Posted : 11 Mar, 2013 01:42 AM thanks for sharing!... we have the same belief about finding a man. " dont yoke to unbelievers" because!... lightness and darkness is not good!... I had friends and cousins who married with unbeliever and their marriage is complicated...some of them are divorce. I learned a lot from them that makes me strong in my waiting time. Obedience is better than sacrifice! Post Reply
Lukia^ View Profile History	He/She should love God more than he loves you Posted : 11 Mar, 2013 06:30 AM Pray girl.its good you feel that way but remember in this life you expect challenges and they can come in any way. Tell me if you married a man and he backslides what will you do? Won't you take time to pray for your husband? I'm not in any way suggesting that you go for anything less than what you believe,but pray my girl. Post Reply