The world has somehow gotten us to believe that the way to a man's heart is through his body. But the bigger lie is buried in the center of that staement because it implies that we women have nothing else to offer except our bodies. When we allow this subtle lie of Satan to influence our reasoning, we become victims of a double-edged deception. If our bodies are all we have to offer,we're in trouble. Unless we're Olympic gold medalists in the bedroom (and who knows what really constitutes that), we stand to lose based on expectiations we don't even know about. Being the world's greatest lover is purely subjective.
God never meant for us to bear this kind of pressure. Sex was designed to be a response to Love, not a foundation for it. It was to be a cement and a seal of an Already established commitment made in the presence of witnesses who stood in agreement before God. If we settle for conditions less than this, we leave ourselves open for pain and, in some cases, irreparable damage.