Author	Thread: Ready to give up
Maxi78 View Profile History	Ready to give up Posted : 26 Mar, 2012 08:07 AM There are so many beautiful women on this site but all seem so far, far away from me... it's what wrecked my last relationship distance is no problem for me but obviously it is for some, don't get me wrong I would prefer a girl down the road I could see every day I am willing to commute a few hours to see the one i love its worth the effort in my opinion. nuff said god bless all of you... Post Reply
View Profile History	Ready to give up Posted : 26 Mar, 2012 02:51 PM A lot of people come to online dating and forget it's just another way of meeting people; heck, not even the best by a long shot! This is a global website so the chance of meeting someone just down the road is very small, which is why a lot of us use it mainly for the forums. Bottom line: don't forget to keep trying the conventional methods for dating as that's more likely where you'll be successful. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ready to give up Posted : 28 Mar, 2012 07:35 PM I think the best thing to do is to become active in a congregation nearby. There are also dedicated singles groups that some churches have for people like us too. But the most effective thing you can possible do is pray about it. God will reveal His will for you if you keep after Him, and He will provide for you in that department if you yield that desire to Him. Post Reply
MissCharming View Profile History	Ready to give up Posted : 1 Apr, 2012 08:00 AM I also want an advice))I'm 33 and i'm praying for husband a lot...There is nobody at my church-all guys are married and I'm afraid of my age... Post Reply
kuinett View Profile History	Ready to give up Posted : 2 Apr, 2012 02:26 AM hi how do you honestly know and tell when God is showing you the wright persons Post Reply
View Profile History	Ready to give up Posted : 3 Apr, 2012 07:44 AM Distance, in my humble opinion, is a challenge on many levels however, it is not something that can't be overcome if both people have given of themselves wholly and completely. Is is easy, no. Does it present an additional set of challenges not dealt with in local dating? Certainly. But again, if both have devoted themselves to the nurturing and care of one another's heart, then distance is like anything else; what you choose to make of it. Finally, ""I am willing to commute a few hours to see the one i love its worth the effort in my opinion." is that a limitation or a preference? And what if she is more than a "few hours commute"? I am not saying that you are wrong in any way(!!!), I am merely suggesting that as the world has gotten smaller, perhaps we can adjust our expectations as the heart truly does not recognize distance and time� Just a thought. God's best to you! Post Reply
View Profile History	Ready to give up Posted : 21 Apr, 2012 01:23 PM The amazing thing is that when we feel that we are giving up...God has not given up. I have felt like that myself quite often. But then I remember He who holds the universe in His hands, also holds me and knows me. Of course the distance thing is a worry. Going the extra mile will be a bridge God Himself will build and allow one to cross if He has ordained that one's special someone is indeed across the bridge...even 2 to hundreds of miles in-between. Be blessed Post Reply
akothmikal View Profile History	Ready to give up Posted : 30 Jun, 2012 05:16 AM I know am late on this post, but lets all keep in mind that distance is just a test to see how far love can travel, l wonder atimes how many are ready to pass that test. GOD BLESS YOU ALL! Post Reply