Author	Thread: PAST EXPERIENCES CAN BE OUR WORST ENEMIES IN FINDING YOUR TRUE LOVE
angy005 View Profile History	PAST EXPERIENCES CAN BE OUR WORST ENEMIES IN FINDING YOUR TRUE LOVE Posted : 4 Feb, 2012 02:42 AM I know most of us believe in a saying "experience is the best teacher" indeed experience is really a best teacher, but i have learned that it can aslo hinder you from brasking through, from receiving what God has stored for you, it can become your worst enemy. why am I saying this. let me put a scenario in relationships: most people who have been priviously hurt, disappointed, went through some painfull experiences, went through divorce, they dont want to be involved nor commit themselves in any relationship again or if they do they become too cautious. why is that? it because they are scared to be disappointed, in brief they are sacared to go through the same pain and things they went through before. they say never again: "i will rather be alone than being unhappy" where does this leave us? this means you have closed your doors and chances to your breakthrough and happiness, because of the past experiences you once went through 6 moths, 2, yrs, 6yrs, 10yrs ago. now experince has become your worst enemy to hinder you into your happiness because when someone ment for your come your way you wont even see beacause you will be too cautious and comparing the things the person is doing visa v to the person of your past who disappointed you, hurt you, put into pains, disgraced you etc. sometimes you will find that with this new person it was just n honest mistake but we normally say " I have been through this before so and so use to do it, now i know the outcome of this so called mistake, and i have learn from my past experiance", and everything now will be based to what has happened before and we normally say "history is repeating itself".but have u sat down and think that where is the future?, because u living at this present moment but u still holding on to the past and it is holding u back. my fellow brotheren and sisteren lets not allow our past experiences destroy our future. never allow the devil to use your past to discourage you nor hinder u to the blessings of God, because we are serving a God of second chances, a God full of grace which is suffient for all of us, a God of favour, a mercifull God, a mirracle working God, a God of impossibilities, a God who has been the same yesterday, today and forever, a God who keeps his promises, a God of love and peace. when you find yourself in such a situation, humble yourself before God and submit your situation unto Him which never fails with prayer and submision. trust unto him with all your heart and never depend on your own understanding, seek his will and he will guide your path (proverbs 3: 5-6). believe and have faith unto God. proverbs 24:16 says the righeous will fall seven times and rise up agin seven times. remember winner and champions never quit and quiters never become winners nor champions. hold on unto Jesus. just allow God to take controll of yourlife, allow Him to lead and guid you, allow His will to prevail in yourlife. Proverbs 20:24 may God richy bless u all. Post Reply
View Profile History	PAST EXPERIENCES CAN BE OUR WORST ENEMIES IN FINDING YOUR TRUE LOVE Posted : 4 Feb, 2012 10:57 PM So true, and well put. Not easy or clear to see sometimes but it's the direction you gotta go. Post Reply
View Profile History	PAST EXPERIENCES CAN BE OUR WORST ENEMIES IN FINDING YOUR TRUE LOVE Posted : 7 Feb, 2012 11:21 AM I've been through my share of hurt and disappointment and because of that I didn't really want to be in a relationship. Not because I had been hurt, but it has always been in my heart to give of my self to that one person who I am worthy of and who is worthy of me but i didn't want to carry unforgiveness or resentment into a relationship. Instead of growing with that person I take my issues out on them. Get what I am saying? I pray that many who experience heartache will go to God and get their healing and restoration instead of locking themselves away from truly rewarding friendships and relationships. Locking your heart away just hurts you in the end. I have learned this. Post Reply
angy005 View Profile History	PAST EXPERIENCES CAN BE OUR WORST ENEMIES IN FINDING YOUR TRUE LOVE Posted : 9 Feb, 2012 12:21 PM wow thats wonderfull my dear sister, we all have been there hey, but we are now knew creatures in christ , what past is past. lets hold on to Jesus and move forward coz He is gracious, faithfull and mercifull. He is the God who turns bad news to be good news. stay blessed my sister, may God richly bless u for sharing. Post Reply