Author	Thread: Interests and Attention in the Church....
Admin	Interests and Attention in the Church.... Posted : 7 Jan, 2012 01:41 PM I have a question, how do women in the Church get Men in the Church attention ? I still want to be saved, and I trust God to keep me, but sometimes I be wondering and wanting to give my number to men in the world. I get attention in the world, men ask for my number, I've been called cutie and pretty, I'm thankful to God for the attention. Men in the Church don't talk to me like that, I wish some men were more bold and confident, and just come up and tell me straight out you think I'm cute and want my number. I would like response from men and women. How do you show you want attention to the opposite sex in Church ? Thanks in advance for responses ? Post Reply
View Profile History	Interests and Attention in the Church.... Posted : 7 Jan, 2012 01:52 PM I meant thankyou in advance for responses .(not a question ) Post Reply
View Profile History	Interests and Attention in the Church.... Posted : 7 Jan, 2012 04:50 PM Hey Daughter of the King!:) In answer to your question, you may want to get involved with a Christian singles' group like a Bible study or such. Check the internet for some in your area. By going to a singles' group you will meet others that are also looking for their special one, learn more about our Lord and have fun all at the same time. Plus, you can get to know the guys better, and they you, before you go giving out your number. Years ago I went to two separate Christian college/career group/ Bible study every week. One was through my church, the other was run by another church. We had so much fun! AND there were a few marriages that came out of the groups. One of the girls that got married was a good friend of mine. They are still married today, and that was about 20 years ago. :) Hope this helps. Post Reply
bon10 View Profile History	Interests and Attention in the Church.... Posted : 9 Feb, 2012 01:14 AM Hi!! I think you should join the groups of the church and get to know people. They will get to know you too and get to compliment you. Join the youth group or single ministry and get to know people. One thing i have realised too is that Christian females do not want to be obvious about their like for the Christian males and that does not help them to muster the courage to be the complimentary guys you want them to be. You know the atmosphere(church) seemingly does not allow for certain things and so we think calling you cute or such is a little vulgar. Truly it has to be a whole change of mentality but you can do something for yourself. If you look keenly, those same Christian guys are trying to date non-Christian girls because they can say whatever to them and will not be looked at scornfully. Just pray and think about it. You could change something around your environment. Post Reply