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GOD help my vengeful spirit! Cheating "Christian" ex-bf!! GRRR
Posted : 24 Oct, 2011 10:09 PM

Hi All,

It was just confirmed that my so-called JESUS FREAK ex bf is a cheater. He was divorced when I met him and we had a 7 month relationship. His ex wife (who he's been 'seeing' all this time, minus 3 months)got in touch with me and she wanted to know what's going on with us. She was very nice about it. We both were BEYOND THANKFUL that she wrote to me. SHE never thought he'd cheat and I had some serious reservations about it. Gave him 2 chances with some other stuff and now he's done. Strike 3. So now NEITHER of us are with him. We both showed up at his house at the same time. Perfect timing. I gave him back his pics and so did she. I prayed before I did that for protection. We(her and I) are in awe about how we are to each other. I told her it's the grace of God(she's a new Christian and we got along great for the past week) There's a ton of emotions goin on here. Feeling like a convenient go-between. I'm so ashamed that I didn't break up sooner but I figured he was TOTALLY sold out for the Lord. Just proves that even Christian men can cheat. SAD, but TRUE. Thanks for the vent session

Any comments or advice are appreciated:waving:

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GOD help my vengeful spirit! Cheating "Christian" ex-bf!! GRRR
Posted : 25 Oct, 2011 01:04 AM

That's disheartening to hear. No woman or man should ever have to go through stuff like that. On a positive note, i believe it was also the grace of God that you BOTH discovered the truth about him. I'm sure the second he opened the door and saw you two, in that brief moment he was crying in his soul knowing the backlash of sin caught up with him & the price was much bigger than he could have ever anticipated.



I pray for your next relationship, that without a doubt you find someone who is the real deal & a TRUE follower of the Lord. God bless :prayingm:

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Posted : 25 Oct, 2011 08:57 PM

Thanks for your encouragement SO. Thanks for at least popping in on my post. Didn't hear from the other 27 who viewed it. Guess they think I'm a nut:ROFL:

I do believe he is crying for his soul as I type. I'm praying for him to come to repentance and back to pleasing the Lord.

Dana:angel:

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Posted : 27 Oct, 2011 11:40 AM

Well anyone can talk a good talk, but you can't fake what's in your heart... I can have the head knowledge of a Christian but it does me no good if I don't live it. Even Satan believes and trembles!

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Posted : 27 Oct, 2011 01:23 PM

Your situation was very sad one. Often times the ex are not over each other and do pursue some one else for a relationship. Those that profess to be Christian should not do this but unfortunately some do. I do not feel this is a true Christian man. Anyway, he needs to ask forgiveness!

He probably would go back to his wife if she would except him back. This is often the case. All ladies out there should be beware of this could happen to them.

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Posted : 27 Oct, 2011 04:05 PM

I hope you hear his side of the story why he�s been seeing his ex. Why not give him the benefit of the doubt he might be seeing her for a reason and not cheating at all. Whatever, just bless him and hope he will be happy and I believe the blessings will come back to you in folds.

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Posted : 7 Jul, 2012 04:25 AM

God will heal your broken heart dear sister. This is the work He does because He loves you.

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