Author	Thread: Winking and writing messages
Admin	Winking and writing messages Posted : 20 Oct, 2011 05:09 AM Just thought I'd say that I have had the experience that a guy will wink at me and then I write a short message and ask a few questions about him. Then when he writes back he doesn't ask me any questions. This advice may have already been given, but if you wink at someone (girl or guy) and you write them back after they write you, ask them a question or two. If I don't get asked any questions or even comments on my profile, then it seems to me like these guys are not interested, which make me not aso interested in writing back again. So why wink at someone if you don't have something to say to them? (rhetorical question) Any other people's comments on this? Post Reply
View Profile History	Winking and writing messages Posted : 20 Oct, 2011 09:04 AM Some men are on here just to try to get dates. They see a attractive lady or any lady and just Wink hoping to get a nice response. These guys are not usually serious, just write them off. If they can not ask any questions shows me they have little interest for any meaningful relationship. :zzzz: Post Reply
View Profile History	Winking and writing messages Posted : 21 Oct, 2011 03:05 AM There aren't any men on this site in my area, so for them to want to have a date with me, they would have to come quite far-anywhere from a few hours to thousands of miles. I think they may not know how to ask questions. Post Reply
hjfield1967 View Profile History	Winking and writing messages Posted : 25 Oct, 2011 02:10 PM Forgive me, I beg to differ I personally can only speak for myself and yes I wink first not because I am lazy but because I want you ladys to read my profile and see what I am interested in as I have done to those I wink to. I would not try to start a conversation with a woman on here w/o her first looking at my profile and knowing I am a Bible College student whos been called to be a preacher... thats a huge pill to swallow for alot of ladys and I believe if its of God its gonna be a woman who can handle being a pastors wife as thats a calling all its own. Blessings. Post Reply
View Profile History	Winking and writing messages Posted : 25 Oct, 2011 05:25 PM May I say, there are pastors and evangelists on Christian websites and they do this, wink at women all the time just to get to know them and date them. Paid Christian websites are full of these kind of men. I speak from experience. So just do not think a woman is going to believe you are serious JUST because you say you are a minister. Converstations online and on phone later will prove to be what is of God or not. Blessings...... Post Reply
1newguy View Profile History	Winking and writing messages Posted : 1 Nov, 2011 08:40 PM I don't wink nor answer winks unless there's a letter attached. I just think they're cheesy, which is odd because I love cheese? Post Reply
View Profile History	Winking and writing messages Posted : 2 Nov, 2011 02:02 AM I love cheese, too! I don't really like winks either. They don't really say anything. I have written to a couple of people who winked at me, but they don't really seemed to say much when writing back, so I've taken the advice given me and given up on those people. Post Reply