Author	Thread: truth about life
liz_kulet View Profile History	truth about life Posted : 17 Sep, 2011 07:50 PM �A sad thing in life is that sometimes you meet someone who means a lot to you only to find out in the end that it was never bound to be and you just have to let go.� It's painful to let go someone that means a lot to you, but it's more painful to hold on to someone whom does not care,,isn't it???? Post Reply
View Profile History	truth about life Posted : 18 Sep, 2011 04:09 AM That is true Liz. Lonely comes in all kinds of forms, and married & lonely is the worst! I think the key is not to jump to conclusions just because you are attracted to someone. Draw closer, over the months, testing the validity of the relationship without actually hooking into believing that "this could be the one" until you've both confirmed that it is a right match for 'both' of you. Note when you are putting your hope in the relationship more than hope in God's perfect plan (even if it means "this is Not the guy"). The heart and the head are often at odds with each other and we can convince ourselves of something based mearly on what we feel. However, if we line our heart up to beat with God's heart, then what He's telling us (those little warning signs and call to prayer) will not be in conflict with how we feel. :yay: Still learning to do this myself! :rolleyes: Post Reply
bellesimplicity View Profile History	truth about life Posted : 18 Sep, 2011 10:29 AM Hi Liz, well the truth is, letting go of anything is never easy. And no one said it had to be. When we give love, it's only human for us to expect it back, and when it's not returned, we get hurt and feel pain and rejection because of the expectations we had. But ask yourself this: did that person even know you were expecting something more from them? or did you try to accept them for who they are and tried your best to see if they expressed their love and care in some other way? It all depends on these 2 and if the answer is yes for both then that means you've given it your best and the only thing left to do is pray for him, let go, don't look back and move forward. It's all about leaving it in God's hands because if it's meant to be then it will come to pass no matter what and it will be brought back to you, but otherwise that means something far better is yet to come and that is something you should be excited for :). Be reminded that God's promises extend to every aspect of our lives and He is good, faithful and true to His word. Let Him bring you a man after His own heart, someone who knows his priorities and who will love and appreciate you for all that you are. Be Blessed Liz :) Post Reply
liz_kulet View Profile History	truth about life Posted : 19 Sep, 2011 04:23 AM Thank you so much to the both of you for the advice. I just have to trust God and pray for the man that is really meant for me. The man that God will give me. God bless you both!:angel::waving: Post Reply