Author	Thread: questions about guys
Admin	questions about guys Posted : 26 Aug, 2011 05:31 AM Why does a guy get to know you and then two weeks later decide, oh your just not it for me and not enough for me or any guy, why does this always seem to happen to me? Why are guys always using me and taking advantage of me? Post Reply
View Profile History	questions about guys Posted : 26 Aug, 2011 11:49 PM and why do guys pretend to be interested? And why do guys lead girls on? I'm just so sick and tired of guys and relationships! Post Reply
View Profile History	questions about guys Posted : 28 Aug, 2011 11:51 AM First of all you have some serious resentments you need to deal with. You are going into all of the forums and posting nothing but negative comments. Do you really think that is going to attract the guy God has for you? Second, this is just how it is. You meet someone, hang out and sometimes lose interest. That is how it works. Your focus should be on building solid friendships and eventually the right "friend" will want to become more. If you keep focusing on the negative you are only going to get more of the negative. Post Reply
MyCrownIsGod View Profile History	questions about guys Posted : 18 Sep, 2011 03:09 PM I've had a lot of guys show interest in me, this does not always mean I am interested in them back. Sometimes people don't click. It happens, and it will continue to happen. Why? Because God hasn't brought you the right one yet. One day, you will meet the man who will win your heart, and you will know why it never worked out with anyone else...and by then, you will be GLAD it didn't work out with the others. As for guys using you and taking advantage of you...the hard truth of the matter is, YOU allow them to take advantage and disrespect you. People (men and women both) will treat you however you allow them to. You alone choose your friends and romantic partners. If you allow people who treat you badly to continue to be a part of your life,you can't blame anyone but yourself. Set some boundaries for yourself, and for the people in your life, and demand the respect and basic human decency you deserve. Don't allow people to use you or abuse you. When they know you won't put up with it, they will find someone else who will, leaving you open to the possibility of a real, open, honest and loving relationship with someone who will treat you good, loves you, and wants the best in life for you. Trust God to bring the right person to you in HIS timing, and in the meantime, enjoy being single and focused on Him. God Bless. Post Reply