Author	Thread: I don't know how to change how I feel...
Admin	I don't know how to change how I feel... Posted : 17 Aug, 2011 04:24 PM I feel like I could be happier in some aspects on my own because I like my space and my own things, peace and quiet, but I hate doing things alone too and just being alone all the time. I hate sleeping alone. I just wish I had someone to laugh with and stuff, someone to say I love you too and to tell me in return and actually mean it. Sadly I seem to have no luck with women. Also my family has never been there for me. I have one sister but of course she'd choice her husband over her own flesh and blood anyday even though he's abusive. She nor my parents have much to say to me, they've always been so selfish. To be honest I'm afraid to get invovled with anyone because I feel like someone else is always going to be more important, come between us. Call me selfish, but I've been through a lot and I've never felt loved, never even felt human to be honest and especially haven't felt like a man. I think maybe it's best I give up on notions of love, matrimony, kids, etc. It would be so nice to have a loving and attractive christian woman to come home too every day and kiss but I guess it will never be. I'm always afraid if something happened it'd be too good to be true. Seems I'll never have children or any of that stuff. I've never been with anyone but if I could I would never cheat and love my woman with all my heart and being. I've been saving myself for love but it all seems in vain. So long love, there seems to be none for this man.... Post Reply
teach_ib View Profile History	I don't know how to change how I feel... Posted : 17 Aug, 2011 06:55 PM Pretty powerful summary...not necessarily the right conclusion. God loves you and has purpose for you. You won't have those things you want with a defeatist attitude. Accepting who you are and the circumstances God allowed you to live through will help prepare you for a spouse. Have you talked with a Christian counselor about the challenges you've faced in your life? Post Reply
View Profile History	I don't know how to change how I feel... Posted : 17 Aug, 2011 07:13 PM You know having a girl friend is a nice thing. But nice things, girlfriend or not, won't make you happy. It comes from within. And it can only be found when you seek out God with all your heart. He will help you if you ask and believe He will. Which isn't to say bad things won't happen, but He will always be there to help you through it and work it for your good. Post Reply
View Profile History	I don't know how to change how I feel... Posted : 19 Aug, 2011 11:30 AM I Agree what IOnlyDateCheerleaders said! :applause: Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	I don't know how to change how I feel... Posted : 20 Aug, 2011 02:07 PM Like IODC said, you can get a girlfriend, but if you're not satisfied in Christ, you'll just continue to be unsatisfied. Go pick up, "Don't Waste Your Life" at your local Christian bookstore for a lot more than I could ever type into this box. Post Reply