Author	Thread: HE says he has a girlfriend
Admin	HE says he has a girlfriend Posted : 19 Jul, 2011 09:29 AM Why is it that men on Christian sites will talk to a woman and then he says he has a girlfriend and they spent the day together.:excited: He contacted me first. But I didnt show much interest at first I was talking to someone Online at the time. I wrote back and said, why are you even on here if you have a girlfriend you spend time with her. I guess I shouldnt be suprised at anything on even a Christian site. Post Reply
Christiancowboy1 View Profile History	HE says he has a girlfriend Posted : 19 Jul, 2011 10:10 AM It's not about being surprised. it's like Christ said when he was asked why he taught in Parrables. He said," it was to help people understand" Look at it through Christ's eyes. This man just doesnt understand this way of the Lord yet. just like Im sure there are ways and things you do not yet know or understand. Everyone is at their own level of growth. We are not called to judge them, but to love them and seek ways to share his truths so they can live in them in them also. Then too, we are called to keep our eyes upon him and make no committments unless he has guided us too and made it clear. As Paul said time proves all things. With every lady I meet on here I share the same truth. I tell them I beleive in only being friends, and allowing the Lord in time to prove and make perfetly clear his will if he intends the relationship to be more then a friendship. Yes, we have attractions to one another, but I have learned to keep those in check, and my eyes open to being equally yoked, and not committing to anything but a friendship. i just posted a few writings here that might help you better understand. Blessings, David Post Reply
View Profile History	HE says he has a girlfriend Posted : 19 Jul, 2011 11:00 AM My point was that he should have told me. It is more about a upfront TRUE thing. I know men date more than one woman on these sites and Off. But what I look for is Trueth/Honesty in a Man. I do not look for any man to be perfect. Post Reply
Christiancowboy1 View Profile History	HE says he has a girlfriend Posted : 19 Jul, 2011 11:49 AM I totally understand that he should have been honest...thats a given. Your post here about it told me that it really upset and bothered you. it points to his sin and him as a bad person. I was merely trying to give you the way Christ's looks at us in love, instead of out to point out our sin and wrong and condemn us. There is no value in Condemning another or pointing out their wrong or sin. But there is total victory and glory in loving them dispite theri sin, wrong or etc...and seeking the Lord's guidance in how to be to possibly touch their hearts and share truth with and change their hearts and ways to follow him in what is of true value. i have been had struggles myself in this area. Im a truckdriver and to hear men talking in vulger ways to lady on the CB, or putting others down because they made a mistake, or etc...just really gets under my skin. So much so, that i use to get into it with them about what they were doing. Then the Lord put upon my heart that there was nothing being gained my actions, and that in truth my actions of condemning them, was doing just the opposite that my heart desired for them. That was that they came to know him. I know that once they know him then there is a heart change. Which in turn leads them away from those ways.Now I ask them in love if there is any value in their actions or what they are saying? i ask them what good or possitive will come from it? Then I share that true value is found through Christ and following his ways. Manytimes now they have been blessed and had a change of heart. Im merely saying there is an awesome way share his truth in every situation, if only we open our own hearts to seek and receive it Blessings, David Post Reply
View Profile History	HE says he has a girlfriend Posted : 19 Jul, 2011 11:56 AM David, I was only able to get to the "bad person"....no, no, no..bad behavior, christians are not ever bad people, they act badly and you do know that...hate the sin, not the sinner.. bless, michael Post Reply
Christiancowboy1 View Profile History	HE says he has a girlfriend Posted : 19 Jul, 2011 12:27 PM That was my point exactly Micheal! I know those words myself, and should have added them too. Thanks for adding them and more clarity. blessings, David Post Reply
View Profile History	HE says he has a girlfriend Posted : 20 Jul, 2011 06:18 AM I apologize for writing this Post prematurely. I just heard the story correctly. His girlfriend is a pet/dog who went to the park with him on his day off.:laugh: WOW... I feel like a heal. :excited: Sometimes we Women are too quick to jump at conclusions.:rolleyes: Moving on now......lol Post Reply
View Profile History	HE says he has a girlfriend Posted : 21 Jul, 2011 12:05 PM he referred to the dog as his girlfriend??? lol ok Maybe he's trying to be funny or make a subtle point that that's the closest thing he has to a girlfriend. Post Reply