Author	Thread: is love for suckers?
denwil62 View Profile History	is love for suckers? Posted : 20 Dec, 2008 10:58 AM I Sometimes wonder. I loved my parents, i love the lord. I loved my dog. yet 100% love for a women is rare in the crazy greedy paranoid days we now live in. Plus I have seen love turn into hate and get very ugly. How does that work?. LOVE is forever right?. I think that people need and want love to much. Plus get confuse with respect for one and another and great lovemaking for LOVE itself. I have broken a few hearts becuase of this one reason. respect and good sex. Yet never had mine ripped out yet. Is it better to have LOVED AND LOST Or to have NEVER LOVED AT ALL? I think never loved at all. I have met too too many many women who are scorne with broken hearts and trust issues who refuse to open there hearts again because of the past. Yet i still will never give up hope on finding my lifepartner. LOVE? how bout U like and respect my thoughts ALOT. I can live with that. ::signhelp::::signhelp:: D.W [e8] Post Reply
View Profile History	is love for suckers? Posted : 20 Dec, 2008 09:42 PM If your heart has not been touched then you have not loved. The love between a woman and man is that completeness. The other half...the thing that is missing in your life...the breath you need...the piece that makes you smile in the midst of pain...the missing rib. Sexual pleasures are only an animalistic instinct unless coupled with the heart and then Oh the difference you will find. It is better to have loved and lost, then to have never loved at all. It is risky but it's one worth taking! Robin Post Reply
View Profile History	is love for suckers? Posted : 21 Dec, 2008 12:22 PM Robin, You have one of the most beautiful hearts I have ever seen. That was an incredible post, and so true. I know God will bless you with a man who has a like heart. Blessings, Leon Post Reply
MissJoy View Profile History	is love for suckers? Posted : 21 Dec, 2008 02:58 PM No, sir, Love is not for suckers. Jesus loved and He loved with His whole heart. The Bible says for men to love their wives as Christ loved the Church... Loving and letting go of hurt is a chance we take when that one person comes along who makes it worthwhile. And when Christ is in the center of that love, the sky is the limit. Sex? Why settle for "sex?" I want intimacy laced with love, from a man who has been sent to me from God, who loves my body as his own, and knows that the only way he can get to my heart is through God. So what are you waiting for? There are plenty of lovely Christian women on this site... take a chance big guy. God bless you. Post Reply
rwoodz View Profile History	is love for suckers? Posted : 6 Jan, 2009 11:58 PM I agree to diagree with you all. I love and have lost love. It hurts. It is the worst pain in the world. I just thank God everyday that he loves me and will never stop no matter who, what, how or where I am. I must be the ultimate sucker. I believe in love. Love is something you choose. God chooses to love us. We choose to love Him. We choose to love one another. It is sad that in this day and age we choose to love ourselves more than we choose to love God. This is something I really need to work on. Just remember when you think of love you are really thinking about God. God is love. And love never fails. We fail. We give up. We choose to look the other way, look for someone or something better, or just plain don't care. That is the way I look at love. Randell Post Reply
ephesians522 View Profile History	is love for suckers? Posted : 22 Jan, 2009 10:02 AM 1 Corinthians 13 (The Message) Love never gives up. Love cares more for others than for self. Love doesn't want what it doesn't have. Love doesn't strut, Doesn't have a swelled head, Doesn't force itself on others, Isn't always "me first," Doesn't fly off the handle, Doesn't keep score of the sins of others, Doesn't revel when others grovel, Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth, Puts up with anything, Trusts God always, Always looks for the best, Never looks back, But keeps going to the end. The problem is most of us are concerned with our own self being. We judge life by what makes us happy, makes us feel good. Lets face it, at one time or another we all question God when things look dim for us. When it comes to an earthy relationship, both men and women are ruled more by the release of hormones and dopamine to determine the feelings of love than forgiveness and sacrifice. Many out there aren't ready to love, they confuse lust with love. To them, love is a physical thing, they want fireworks. Once the show is over, they would turn to another to regain those feelings. That is when hearts get broken. Many relationships were ended because one wasn't "happy". To those who have such selfish desires expect to continue being unhappy. Waste your time and live looking for the "Golden Egg". With the passing of time your options for love will dwindle. You will be less of a prize for someone else. Look at those who have been brought into this world before you and consider where they stand now. To those living with broken hearts, take time to heal. Love the one who loved you first, the Lord. When you're ready to have an earthly love then let it come to you. Do you believe in "unconditional love"? The scientific community consider it a form of co-dependency. It is loving someone even if things start going bad. In that one would sacrifice their own well being to continue to show love to another. But who is the master of "unconditional love"? Vow to yourself that you will do anything to keep that love when you receive it. Learn to forgive, overlook short comings. Make sure the well being of the one you love comes before yours, sacrifice. Write down the reasons why you love the Lord and why you love that person and put it in your bible, in that it can reaffirm why you love them, after all, don't we turn to the bible for comfort in God's love? Post Reply
MHammond View Profile History	is love for suckers? Posted : 22 Jan, 2009 05:58 PM For some, love is conditional (such as your dog to you), your love you have toward your parents is different from the type of love you may have toward your child or spouse. But the best love is the love we receive from our Heavenly Father. As far as the trust goes, that is an issue each person has to work out, especially when there is a person who you trusted 100% and then they do something that is so out of line you have an issue of trusting ANYONE. I know that is what destroyed my marriage. It has been five years and I am just now starting to believe there are people from this planet (remember Philippian 3:20) you can trust. For the past few years I only trusted God. Not my kids, mom, uncle or any friend or coworker. Until you have walked in someones shoes you may not understand how humans can be. And to answer you question, we who love are not suckers. We are two people put together by the power of God by his will. So many folks mistake lust for love and have no clue what true love is really about. Post Reply
View Profile History	is love for suckers? Posted : 13 Jun, 2011 11:16 AM Heck no, Love is not for suckers~We all want and hope for love to be Forever>But according to many profiles on here,we see that is just not so.YOU on the other hand,denwill62 sound as if you have never known Love(reason for not having had you heart "ripped' out yet)just boasting on the side that gives you what YOU want without the hurt.(while hurting others~with no respect involved,making for the scorned,untrusting hearts)To have Loved and Lost is,in actuality,the BEST,as it is a stepping stone in living and learning(being open enough TO learn from the loss)helping you to better undrstand,yourself and others to possibly help in making better choices later on. LOVE or LUST??well,if the Lust is what draws you,let it wait and intensify,while learning the other,and letting it turn into love....UNTILL you are able to be married,then being able to let that LOVE out(sex is marriage)so hopefully,as it should,it stays in the mariage,with no hearts being broken~unless of course,you marry only to carry through on the Lust(so many unthinking twists)not knowing the person for WHO they are,JUST to fufill your "need" without actually learning LOVE....NOW, what God has for us ,is a wonderful unconditional LOVE,with His yaerning that we will turn to HIM when we feel that lost love or lonliness.Wanting us to depend on Him,praying on the direction and decisions we feel may be correct.Keeping God in the CENTER of it all ,..ALWAYS. Gaurding our hearts,fufilling NO lusts,standing strong in who you are untill our "Love"should come along the path God has us on~!!! Leaving the steering to Him~ Post Reply
View Profile History	is love for suckers? Posted : 27 Oct, 2012 01:46 AM I like that. That is some thoughts I have been having too and attribute that to more maturity. When you care about someone so much you realize that it goes beyond the physical. Thank you for sharing. Post Reply
View Profile History	is love for suckers? Posted : 27 Oct, 2012 02:12 AM I like that. Other than selflessness I cannot think of any one word that can even begin to touch on what love is. Post Reply
View Profile History	is love for suckers? Posted : 21 Nov, 2012 08:14 PM Well, I wish I could delete this stuff but it doesn't look like I can. Post Reply