Author	Thread: Please i need your advice,
mercyg View Profile History	Please i need your advice, Posted : 27 May, 2011 04:49 AM Iam a lady of 30 plus,i dont dont why iam not being appreciated by a man despite my kindhearted,loving and caring,i always make make sacrifices and to give all my heart out when it comes to being in love,iam very very fragile dat when iam hurt i`m always down,A man i have in mind that i want to get married to,get my heart woulded after collecting all my money and never call again,i tried his number but switched off,though iam outside the country while he is at Africa,what should i do? is there still a man outthere for me? can i ever confide in a man again after all dat have faced? iam so confused dat i dont know why i have to go thru dis kind of treatment. Post Reply
View Profile History	Please i need your advice, Posted : 27 May, 2011 01:02 PM Mercy, Take a deep breathe. 1st. Is he also in Nigeria? 2nd. Have you gone to the police in your country? Now as for whether you can trust men again, I think you can. Not all men are like the one you ran across. Yes, there are going to be some who will try to scam you, but if you keep your eyes open and listen to God, you should be able to avoid getting into relationships with them. Just ask God to help you find the ones that are genuine. Take it slow, and don't let anyone make you feel like you have to rush things. Post Reply
mercyg View Profile History	Please i need your advice, Posted : 27 May, 2011 04:39 PM Tanx for ur reply,yes,he is in Nigeria while i travelled to Swiss,after collecting everything,he disappeared calling his friend and not calling me again,his number is not available again maybe he change his line,i feel he treated me badly after confided in him and making so much sacrifices just to make him happy,i never knew he has been deceiving me all dis while. Post Reply
annma View Profile History	Please i need your advice, Posted : 30 May, 2011 03:11 AM Hello Mercyg, I am so sorry that someone took advantage of you when you are such a nice person my dear. I pray the Lord will heal you and remould you into a whole new being after what you have been through.. But one thing Mercy is that most people will try to take advantage of your weakness, your weakness being that you trust alot and easily, But my dear, you have to learn how to guard your heart, pray diligently and seek the Lord.I know the Lord has someone special for you somewhere but you shouldnt trust the first man that comes along... I read somewhere that a man should earn your trust..Let him prove himself over and over again...I know you are a good person but have trusted the wrong people...The Lord will see you through..Pray always and guard your heart Be blessed Post Reply