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SURVEY TIME- PART 2: What do you know about LOVE?
Posted : 2 Dec, 2008 02:35 PM

1. What does love mean to you?



2. What motivates you to love?



3. Do you consider yourself to be competent in the love

department? Why?



4. How did you succeed in loving another person with

pure motives for a significant amount of time?



5. How did you place unrealistic or idealistic expecatations

upon your past love relationships?



6.How did you fail to give what your "loved one" truly needed?



7. How did your past LTR influence your desire and ability

to love for the better in this present day?



8. What defines a healthy relationship for you?



9. What one facet of love can you not live without?



10. Do you believe 2 incomplete people make up a whole for

a successful relationship? OR...



11. Do you belive that 2 whole people make up a balanced bond for the long term?



12. Do you see love only as a feeling that determines how, why, and when you love? OR...



13. Do you see love as a truth to commit to at all cost and times not based upon feeling?



14. Could you be perfectly content just loving on God alone for the rest of your journey no matter how much you wanted a spouse/children?



Will

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SURVEY TIME- PART 2: What do you know about LOVE?
Posted : 3 Dec, 2008 10:37 PM

Hi Will,

You post some very thought provoking questions.

1. Love to me means putting the other person first. When

you love someone, you care more for that person than

yourself. Hence, our Lord sacrificed himself for us out of

love.

2. The motivation for love comes from God.

14. Quality time with God�.well, can�t say that is a bad

thing. While it would be nice to have a partner during this

time on earth, if that is not what God has in mind for me,

then thank you no. I would much prefer to ascertain his

will and follow him than to have a partner. The best of

both worlds would be to meet my partner. But, if that is

not meant to be, I�ve made it this long and it has been a

delightful journey. The ache of solitude is temporary.

The pain of being ignoredor found lacking is fleeting. The

joy of walking with the Lord more than makes up for

these momentary hurts. He dries my tears and welcomes

me into his loving arms. He gives rain to dance in and

thunderstorms at which to marvel. He gifts blooming

flowers every year without fail. He sends gentle

caresses in the breeze and kisses on sunbeams.

No matter my failings and imperfections, his love never

wavers.

Blessings,

Elisa

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Posted : 4 Dec, 2008 09:01 AM

My dear sister Alisa,



That was a truly beautiful post, made even more so for it's truth. May the God of all creation bless you as you have blessed me, His servant, this day.



Love and the peace that surpasses all understanding,

Leon

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Posted : 4 Dec, 2008 09:02 AM

My dear sister Alisa,



That was a truly beautiful post, made even more so for it's truth. May the God of all creation bless you as you have blessed me, His servant, this day.



Love and the peace that surpasses all understanding,

Leon



P.S. Brother Will, sorry, but after that answer, I wouldn't dare try to post here. Great questions, all.

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Posted : 14 Dec, 2008 10:44 AM

(1) SECURITY.. A RELIEF THAT SOMEONE ELSE PRAYS AS INTENSELY FOR YOU AS YOU DO FOR THEM.

(2) MOTIVATION I GUESS SEEING OTHERS HAPPY, KNOWING WHAT GOD WANTS FOR US

(3) LOVE MEANS BEING HURT..IT INSURESS IT EVEN..AND I HESITATE

(4) I DONT THINK I TRUELY HAVE

(5)NOT SURE I HAD ONE..

(6) NOT CONVERTING

(7) WANTING TO FEEL THAT POUNDING OF THE HEART..CANT STOP SMILING WHEN YOU HEAR THEIR NAME

(8)BEING ABLE TO SPEAK FREELY WITH OUT FEAR OF REJECTION

(9)NOT SURE

(10) WELL I GUESS WE ARE ALL INCOMPLETE IN THE EYES OF THE LORD SO YEAH I GUESS SO..

(11) IF YOUR NOT DEPENDEANT ON THE OTHER PERSON JUST LITTLE BIT THEN IT WONT WORK

(12)NO WAY THERE ARE NO LIMITS TO IT

(13)THAT CAN BE TRICKY

(14)WELL HE WANTS US TO BE FULLY CONTENT AND DEPENDANT ON HIM SO UNTILL WE REACH THAT POINT WHERE ALL WE NEED IS HIM...HE WONT SEND THE RIGHT PERSON TO US RIGHT??

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Posted : 24 Dec, 2008 11:07 AM

1. What does love mean to you?

Love is God. Since God loves us, we are instructed to

"love one another." "If we love one another, God dwelleth in us, and his love is perfected in us." "God is love, and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him."



2. What motivates you to love?

The apostle Paul explains:



If you love your neighbor as much as you love yourself you will not want to harm or cheat him, or kill him or steal from him. And you won't sin with his wife or want what is his or do anything else the Ten Commandments say is wrong. All ten are wrapped up in this one, to love your neighbor as you love yourself. Love does no wrong to anyone. That's why it fully satisfies all of God's requirements. It is the only law you need.





3. Do you consider yourself to be competent in the love

department? Why?



Jesus also said:



There is a saying, "Love your friends and hate your enemies." But I say: Love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute you! In that way you will be acting as true sons of your Father in heaven. For he gives his sunlight to both the evil and the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust too.



If you are friendly only to your friends, how are you different from anyone else? Even the heathen do that.





4. How did you succeed in loving another person with

pure motives for a significant amount of time?



You Cannot Love in Your Own Strength. In your own strength it is not possible to love with God's kind of love.

By nature people are not patient and kind. We are jealous, envious and boastful. We are proud, haughty, selfish and rude, and we demand our own way. We could never love others the way God loves us!





5. How did you place unrealistic or idealistic expecatations

upon your past love relationships?



This depends largely upon the intensity of the earlier relationship. More intense the love, more hurt will result after the break up. The past can be very destructive. It kills the person, it kills the present and the future. It can haunt one forever.For me, I'll try to remove everything from my mind and my heart by reliving and go forward. I might no longer feel the hurt and the pain with the same intensity, but it will be very difficult to fall in love with another person again with the earlier intensity.



Deuteronomy 13:3

You must not listen to the words of that prophet or dreamer. The LORD your God is testing you to find out whether you love him with all your heart and with all your soul.





6.How did you fail to give what your "loved one" truly needed?



Love is always patient, love is always kind.

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