Author Thread: is it wrong to have preferences as a christian?
victorious52

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is it wrong to have preferences as a christian?
Posted : 3 Jul, 2012 07:31 AM

i think we all have them right?

and dream about them them at night :zzzz:



perhaps we might not say it out loud for all to hear

but deep inside we know what we want near



but we all have them right?

even if my face brings fright



if not, then we would all be married already

and not just checking out profiles to go steady



some like people with a different skin tone

some like them white as a bone :purpleangel:



some like them bald with a shinny reflection

some like them hairy a haircut rejection



some like them with a hat

some like them fat



some like them thin

some like them because of the job they are in



one girl said he needs a big package!

i think that christian is a little wackage!



i once asked a girl out from a dating site

didn't know if she was black or white



she had no photo on her profile

i like a woman with some style



her emails had me walking on air

but all of her teeth just wasn't there



she said she was average, but average for what

when your at my age, looking for perfection your not



maybe God just made me this way

or is that the excuse i will say



tell me what you say, you have freedom of expression

and lets get started with this preference session



by vic



one woman got upset because i asked her for a full length picture, some don't want to send a closeup!

i think honesty has to be a priority for trust and then love

what do you think?

we are spiritual

but do we have to not like the physical?

issac liked rebecca

whats so bad about that?

and we see jacob got the old bait and switch, when he didn't have a light on during the honeymoon right?

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is it wrong to have preferences as a christian?
Posted : 10 Jul, 2012 09:15 PM

Ha ha I think that was funny :).

I hung out with mostly the guys in my youth group growing up because I wanted to know how men think so male humor was a by product. Like the joke about the wife and dog missing but there's a reward for the dog I think that's hilarious. You must be able to laugh at yourself our your own gender sometimes I think lol.



I like my ham too lol but other than that I need someone who is spiritually in tuned I wouldn't want to be with someone who didn't believe in the Holy Spirit for instance.

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is it wrong to have preferences as a christian?
Posted : 11 Jul, 2012 02:50 AM

truwhorshipper



"Ha ha I think that was funny :).



I hung out with mostly the guys in my youth group growing up because I wanted to know how men think so male humor was a by product. Like the joke about the wife and dog missing but there's a reward for the dog I think that's hilarious. You must be able to laugh at yourself our your own gender sometimes I think lol.







I like my ham too lol but other than that I need someone who is spiritually in tuned I wouldn't want to be with someone who didn't believe in the Holy Spirit for instance."



funny story! i told me newest true account of my telephone call to a woman and she got a little touchy about it, i can't be with a person who can't take a joke or can't jab back at me. like one time i went to the car mechanic, i told him i think it is the transmission, the car, like my wife, doesn't do, what she used to do, the way she did it,before! , the mechanic was :laugh: and i make a lot of comparisons between woman and cars, both have to have their oil changed every 3,000 miles! i need a woman who would say something like men are like cars , you have to turn one on, before he does anything!



a lot of my comedy and a lot of my laughs are at my expense! it doesn't matter to me if people are with me or at me, as long as they are !



yeah i see what you mean . i don't think i want to date or court a woman who doesn't have the same views of the Holy Spirit as i do!

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is it wrong to have preferences as a christian?
Posted : 22 Jul, 2012 01:52 PM

I've only scanned all the replies, so rather than address each one, I'm just going to throw my 2 cents in with regards to the initial question "Is it wrong to have preferences as a christian?"



My answer? No! It's not wrong. That doesn't mean we get all of our preferences, though. That's why I have a short list of "requirements" that I based on Biblical principles. If a man meets those requirements, I'll gladly compromise on preferences. All else (ie. the requirements) being equal, though, I'll pick the guy who meets both my requirements AND my preferences. :angel:

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