Author	Thread: Is there a right time to talk about sex?
IamIsabel View Profile History	Is there a right time to talk about sex? Posted : 15 Mar, 2010 07:30 PM Leave it to me to ask this question publicly! I am sure there will be a wide range of differences here. I'll be the sacrifical lamb and go first since I started this thing. :prayingf: I personally believe couples thinking of wedding should talk about sex. However I think it should be carefully considered and perhaps close to their wedding date and maybe a semi public place. lol! I also believe that details should be left out. For the nay sayers I want to just throw this out there. Just imagine two people on the extreme opposites of the spectrum getting married not knowing what they are getting into. I have more opionions but let's see if I get stones thrown at me before moving forward. Post Reply
View Profile History	Is there a right time to talk about sex? Posted : 18 Mar, 2010 12:26 PM dear b c ,,, after youre married just go prepared yourself to the honeymoon.. problem solved hehe ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Is there a right time to talk about sex? Posted : 18 Mar, 2010 12:58 PM Oops...BCgal...yup forgot ta add the Gent in there...of course He has jus as much involvement...I hava cold right now an kinda fuzzy brained...:rolleyes:...xo Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Is there a right time to talk about sex? Posted : 18 Mar, 2010 05:11 PM Cattle, I fully intend to...no matter what is discussed ahead of time! I'm taking no chances! Post Reply
View Profile History	Is there a right time to talk about sex? Posted : 19 Mar, 2010 09:11 AM deae b c ,, lol you are cute girl.. dear jude, sorry to hear youre not feelin so well.. get better soonest.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Is there a right time to talk about sex? Posted : 19 Mar, 2010 09:41 AM Thanxs Cattle...ima on the mend with rest...xo Post Reply
IamIsabel View Profile History	Is there a right time to talk about sex? Posted : 19 Mar, 2010 08:54 PM No Steve, I'm not the paratrouper! That was another lady on here. Ya'll are nuts on here! :excited: Post Reply
View Profile History	Is there a right time to talk about sex? Posted : 20 Mar, 2010 10:01 AM No one should worry about it. Everyone should talk about it ahead of time though. Having a careful, thoughtful, and prudent discussion AHEAD OF TIME about norms and expectations is vital. To not talk about it, to wait till the honeymoon is like congress saying we will read the bill and understand what the legislation contains AFTER WE PASS IT. You do not want to get locked into a marriage and then find out afterward that the new mate is totally depraved and demands all sorts of filthy perversions, or find out after marriage that the spouse who did not believe in pre-marital sex also does not believe in marital sex. WHOOPS. Get it out and clear before you go too far down the road toward marriage. Post Reply
View Profile History	Is there a right time to talk about sex? Posted : 20 Mar, 2010 10:55 PM I say you should have some talks about sex, like if you had any deviant behaviors ( Homosexual, Beastiality, wierd fetishes, SM)that you might need a lot of help getting rid of, but overall you really have to trust god, talking might not solve anything.Who says that the person is the same level of christian you are and there just as honest as you, it might be hard for even some christians to tell there future spouse they are/were a sexual deviant or had contracted a disease in the past. You really have to trust god and believe in the holy contract of marriage. Post Reply
View Profile History	Is there a right time to talk about sex? Posted : 21 Mar, 2010 09:09 AM Kingdom??? you said something about beast. Come on friend that is not even in my thought line. if I do no think about it how many others do?advice forget that train of thought. That is beyond my scope here. :peace: :peace: Peace ok. Dennis Post Reply
View Profile History	Is there a right time to talk about sex? Posted : 22 Mar, 2010 08:07 PM There is a difference between a sexual conversation and a conversation about sex between two adults headed for marriage. Yes, without a doubt it should be discussed. This discussion should not include favorite positions and what you like for pleasure etc. We all know what those types of conversations lead to - early honeymoon. It would be good for a couple to know the degree of each other's sex drive. If he's smart he will seek the Holy Spirit to know her. He is our teacher and our guide here on earth. I Peter 3:7 tells the husband to dwell with his wife according to knowledge. In other words, he should seek to know her, pay attention to her. Anyway, a discussion about sex between a couple who is engaged is wisdom. It could cut down on misunderstanding, dissapointment and surprises after marriage. If you would like to read more about singles issues you can log onto www.solidfrontworshipcenter.org, point to the page "Single But Not Alone. Blessings Post Reply

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