This thread is crazy judgmental in so many ways and completely non Biblical! There is the two bitter and hateful posters of Needsafriend7 (and boy does it sound like she "needs" some advice from "afriend" maybe more than 7 times!) and Cupcake jumping to wrong conclusions of CountryIvy! then the way Needsafriend7 reads into what Teddyhug posts! Needsafriend7 I have witnessed your attacks of Teddyhug and Cupcake you seem judgmental of CountryIvy's reasonable questions to you. Why? You and Needsafriend7 seem vicious and hot tempered easily in your post! Cupcake you do seem to "mother" your threads with different rules for some and even yourself.
We all see this and hope you do also and change your ways. If I was a "Christian" that is what I would do I guess from what I'm told they are to act like. You both are a terrible witness to me and to others coming on this forum, did you know that? Needsafriend7 its YOU that needs to calm down. Ok?
So CountryIvy has a legit question she keeps asking and you never give her an answer! Why? I would like to know. Thanks!
Do you know how judgmental you sound with no Biblical support to say so? Your first clue should be when the soured twins Needsafriend7 and Cupcake agree with you, that you should be alarmed by that fact!
Why do you TAG older men with implied judgmental words of "illegal' and or "pedophilia" when they are seeking CONSENTING ADULT females that are very much interested in marriage and ARE getting married! I have many secular friends like me (I'm not seeking a "much" younger gal) that are married to younger ("much" as you call it) women and happily married for YEARS and YEARS! I could tell you why but you would not want to hear the truth, would you, from their point of view. Right?
So what brings you to the conclusion that these old to young relationships is all about using? That concerns me that that thought enters your mind and makes me wonder on your motives now? Make sense? Your WHOLE post is missing a HUGE elephant in the room WORD that is not being addressed! What is that?
I'm not a "Christian" Cupcake so I can judge you like the world! I have no rules to go by other than secular rules that I can get away with anyway! LOL! Problem with you is you CLAIM to be "Christian" and your FRUIT stinks to your high heaven you claim your going too!?
Well, Parehtban, what I wrote is sarcastic humor. Apparently, you did not see the humor in it. It's merely an exaggeration.
As for being used and a user at the same time, it's to drive the point. If you want a milder word for it, it's a give and take relationship. As long as the other serves his or her purpose, then the relationship works. Otherwise, it's doomed. A young woman has her needs that can't be fulfilled by an old man and so he compensates for it by pampering her and the woman responds by staying with him as a sign of gratitude. But if one can fulfill each other's needs then maybe, love can blossom, which I think should be the reason for marriage - one that can stand the test of time and last for a lifetime.
So now you show even more of your clear true colors, hiding behind the "sarcastic humor" excuse thing as the reason for your belittling judgmental post of relationships you know nothing about, do not know about because you have no REAL life friends living in these relationships! I do! Anyone reading your post can see what really goes on in your heart and mind, your judgmental ways when you are clueless on the subject. There are no facial emoticons in your post to even HINT at you being sarcastic and you know it and any other male reading this knows it! In fact that is why the soured twins Needsafriend7 and Cupcake agree with you and like you because you meet their agenda of their judgment and jealousy of REAL working relationships! I can break down every sentence you posted with questions but you would not honestly answer them. Your mind is made up, your posting is dripping with judgment!
You have joined in with the soured bunch AND MOST importantly what the Bible says and not says! Have you noticed you have addressed none of that but only your judgmental fleshy thoughts and opinions? Your rotten FRUIT is showing, right? I would "squirm" to even be around someone judgmental like you impersonating a Christian in public! What if your mask fell off in a conversation on the street and others thought because I was with you I must think the same!? LOL!
Look how you try to do the switch from your original damaging words like "being used and a user" to your self judgment use of words like "give and take" which are just secular miss-used (pun intended) words abused today! So you buy into that also! Sad that you are so blind but your comfortable there not wanting reality I would guess. Look how Cupcake protects you NOW, your part of the flock of hens that know it all here on this forum thread and why not, that is the WHOLE purpose of this thread! LOL! Bunch of slithering gossiping snakes with zero evidence to support their claims and AGAIN ZERO Biblical evidence to support it all!
Look at your ending recent post here NOW, you are the same rotting FRUIT! HA! Where is the sarcasm LIE you was claiming now??? BUSTED LIAR! READ ON! You now CLAIM "a young woman's needs can't be fulfilled by an old man" but refuse to give the details of that self clueless judgmental claim of yours! Its true that older men APPRECIATE the younger EXPERIENCED generation of women that KNOW (been there done that those women say!) what life is like in their generation of MAJORITY of slithering BOYS, man-child's! So now they get what they DESERVE and know it when they are pampered and treated like a QUEEN that the MAJORITY of WISE older men do! The ODDS are now in their favor of what they DESERVE and they know it! Lets look at your final posting CLAIMING a "woman responds by staying with him (older REAL gentleman!) as a sign of gratitude" like she is some kind of prisoner or something, like she owes him!? HA! The young EXPERIENCED woman does NOT have a "motive" to stay with him "out of gratitude" because HE is what SHE desires in a REAL relationship she CANNOT get in her generation of majority of self vipers! Got it? You are sooo clueless spiritualconnections and do not even realize the TRUE and REAL "connections" between ANY age of relationships. Then there is the young boys NON "spiritual" minded leadership in the home that
older men know, which is a whole other matter of WISDOM of older men! Wow! Keep the door closed "Spiritualconnections" (lol) and don't look a around because you might learn the truth in the BIG world out there!
In closing you have finally addressed the HUGE elephant in the room I was asking you about, the abused WORD of LOVE today and what it really means! REAL LOVE has no age, it has no self "needs fulfilled" as you selfishly claim that ALL young women are seeking! SELFLESS LOVE only knows one thing for REAL ageless older men and EXPERIENCED younger generation of women and that is about GIVING and never thinking of the devilish getting, what's in it for me SELF SELF thing! You need to repent of your devilish judgmental ways and leave the cackling hens like moldy - attitude - Cupcake and sorely - really - Needsafriend7 on this thread to themselves if you don't want to call them out like CountryIvy has done some, of their judgmental ways AND their ZERO Biblical support of their "beliefs" so called! WOW! You are a terrible witness to me! You seem to be a self "exaggeration" of what YOU think a Christian should be, in judgment of others? Be fresh FRUIT and don't be SOURED and ROTTEN in judgment of others if you claim to be a Christian! Ok?
Wow. So hateful and so vindictive. Did I strike a note? Are you guilty as charged? Who's being judgmental? Who kept on harping about needing biblical verses yet provides none? Do you know the hearts of the people you're talking about? Note that outward appearance may differ from what's in the heart. I've never seen a man who rants more than a woman. And picking a fight with women? How could you lower yourself to that? Do you even have the right to call yourself a man? You've shown your real colors and it's something no woman would want to be acquainted with. Thank God there's few of you.
