Author	Thread: Am I the only one who feels this way?
Admin	Am I the only one who feels this way? Posted : 12 Nov, 2010 06:13 PM I really feel like going gay sometimes. I haven't had any luck with women so maybe I should try men. But then again if my luck is this bad I might not be able to find a guy either. I know the bible says it's wrong to be gay or lesbian but I don't know anymore. I just wish I could find someone to be with who'd love me and want to be with me and only me. Post Reply
View Profile History	Am I the only one who feels this way? Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 03:41 PM Sorry for the typos. :rolleyes: Post Reply
rainbowian View Profile History	Am I the only one who feels this way? Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 04:52 PM I doubt that you're the only one that feels that way. It's important to wait on God's timing and not our own. I know it's easier said than done but I wish you luck my friend. Post Reply
heatherann7 View Profile History	Am I the only one who feels this way? Posted : 16 Nov, 2010 08:45 PM Check out the song, "What love really means" by JJ Heller. I recently found this song this week while i've been struggling being single. It is great. Post Reply
SilverFire View Profile History	Am I the only one who feels this way? Posted : 17 Nov, 2010 09:24 PM Yeah, I know what you mean about feeling like love skips you. I joke sometimes about having a 3 mile-radius of female repulsion (perhaps I should say joked; I haven't felt like this recently). I too have a lot of wounds from childhood, h.s., college, places I used to work -- but those things are now phantoms. I have forgiven those who have hurt me, and if those times ever rise in my mind (and they do), I forgive them again. Forgiveness is a stake through the heart of the vampiric past, because when we forgive, we don't allow the past to rule us anymore. We are the overcomers. And something else when you start down the road towards being unbreakable, the opinions of others, or rather the fear of others' opinions starts to flake away and then, flee. It won't matter what they think, because they are not your master, either. Only what Jesus says really matters; all other opinions are not binding. Post Reply
View Profile History	Am I the only one who feels this way? Posted : 20 Nov, 2010 06:23 PM @Heather: I enjoy JJ's music also! And I'm a Heather too =) I really agreed with what SilverFire said. There is much wisdom in his words, CoolSN, so please take his words to heart. As far as the gay thing, I have felt that way before too. Many, many, many years ago, I briefly tossed around the idea of becoming a lesbian or going bi... Which I can't believe I'm admitting... Like SilverFire, I've felt like I'm repulsing people so much of the time. But not quite so much lately! Not everyone screams and runs away from me! =) Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	Am I the only one who feels this way? Posted : 20 Nov, 2010 07:35 PM csn...dont be in a rush, that maybe the problem. I cannot recall wanting to go bi or lesbian because I have a few in my family and i think it's gross, ew...BUT i have thought of dating the men that DO pursue me...the men in the world. they have everything I want in a man but they are missing a very important piece of the puzzle and that is a relationship with God. I did try it many years ago and eventually I was miserable and knew God wasnt pleased and I let him go. He was a very handsome multi-millionaire who was crazy about me. He offered me and my girls the world but in the end I just couldnt do it. My love for God won and here I am, 6 years later. I have also thought I would dive in head first into ministry and not look back, I've done it before... Maybe that's where God wants me, I just dont know...so I'm in the same place as everyone else. we are all just waiting and making friends along the way ;) much love, River Post Reply
cajunkonection View Profile History	Am I the only one who feels this way? Posted : 21 Nov, 2010 07:37 PM Sorry bro, I can't relate. Granted I don't have the greatest "luck" with women myself but "luck" with the ladies has absolutely zero bearing on whether I would turn gay or not. Honestly, that wouldn't even be an option. I mean seriously there is not one thing at all that would ever make me become physically attractive to another dude. So again sorry man I just can't relate to that problem but I pray that those temptations would be broken off of you by the power and authority of Jesus. God bless! Post Reply
sunnygirl94 View Profile History	Am I the only one who feels this way? Posted : 2 Dec, 2010 10:08 AM I can identify somewhat with what the original writer said. I've only been on here a short time, but have been on other sites for quite some time. I've made a few very nice "friends" and we chat back and forth, but that's not quite what I'd like for a relationship. My view on it is; I'm special. God created me a certain way....the way He wanted so that I will fit the man he's preparing for me. Even though I'm approaching that time in life when most people are well into their marriages, careers, family raising, etc; I'm just embarking on my search for a man to have a Godly relatiosnship with. Yep, I'm a late bloomer. But sometimes we're the ones that have the best scent! Pray, pray and more prayer. Praise Him for what He has given you! In my case, I think Him daily for giving me a second chance at life. And for saving me from the pit. That is surely where I was headed! I don't want a man to complete me....I want one that will compliment me and I, him. Together, we'll praise, worship and love our Savior! Post Reply

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