Author	Thread: What's your love language?
Admin	What's your love language? Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 09:04 AM We've discussed this before here, but it's worth discussing again. Especially since we have some new people. (And my scores are a bit different than they were previously.) Go here and take the test: http://www.5lovelanguages.com/assessments/personal-profiles/?profiletype=singles. And then report back because we're all curious. Well, I am anyway! :goofball: Post Reply
springrose10 View Profile History	What's your love language? Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 01:38 PM @ Pixy "Cobbler, that's massively confusing because:" x Guys get aroused by touch. : If guys got aroused by every touch, there wouldn't be any such thing as non-sexual touch. Guys are more visual. Girls are more likely to be aroused by touch. Touching is a signal to guys that a girl is interested in him. A girl with physical touch as a love language is often misinterpreted or accused of sending mixed messages. x I thought guys do have an emotional need for intercourse. : Guys have an emotional need to express their love to their spouse. Sex is just one of the ways they do that. x Then maybe a guy wouldn't be satisfied with just snuggling some nights. : Depends on the guy. My husband was never satisfied with snuggling. If he was to tired or ill for sex, he didn't want to snuggle either. I would guess that guys that are snugglers do have physical touch as a love language. Guys? Rose Post Reply
View Profile History	What's your love language? Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 01:39 PM I don't want my husband to only have sex w/ me to gratify his physical needs. Post Reply
View Profile History	What's your love language? Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 01:43 PM So if a girl isn't aroused by touch, such as hugging, does that mean there's something wrong w/ her?????????? Post Reply
springrose10 View Profile History	What's your love language? Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 01:47 PM That's not what I said. Sex is just 1 way for him to show you his affection. We tend to try and love others using our own love language. We think that what makes us feel loved will make others feel loved. However, we need to learn our loved one's love language. My love language is acts of service and one of my husband's spiritual gifts was service. When ever he did things to help me, I felt very loved. I never felt unloved because his showing affection through sex also filled a physical need for him. Does that make more sense? Post Reply
springrose10 View Profile History	What's your love language? Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 01:50 PM No. There's nothing wrong with her. But, I don't think it is appropriate to get into an indepth discussion of what is and isn't sexual touch. That should be between 2 people who intend to marry and engage in sexual activity. Post Reply
View Profile History	What's your love language? Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 01:51 PM My comment was in reference to Cobbler's comment on the first page, but that makes a little more sense. I guess it's just that I want my husband to actually love ME and want to make love to ME, not just see me as this piece of flesh that makes him all happy physically. Post Reply
View Profile History	What's your love language? Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 01:52 PM Glad to see this question has been asked on CDFF ... I've shared some of mine in my profile ... here is my Five Love Languages test scores in their entirety, pixy and everyone: 1) PRIMARY LOVE LANGUAGE: PHYSICAL TOUCH (11 points) 2) SECONDARY LOVE LANGUAGE: QUALITY TIME (10 points) 3) Words of Affirmation (5 points) 4) Receiving Gifts (3 points) and 5) Acts of Service (1 point) I was wondering 'bout others here's PRIMARY and other love languages too, pixy ... thanks for reposting this post question!!! :yay::yay::yay: Steve Post Reply
springrose10 View Profile History	What's your love language? Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 02:15 PM As Cobbler said, for guys, having sex and making love are not the same thing. For girls, there is no difference. IMO, your marriage will be more harmonious if you accept the fact that sex meets a physical need for men. God made them that way. It is not a personal reflection on you. If you marry a godly man who truly loves you, he will "make love" to you the vast majority of the time. On occasion, it may feel like "just sex" to you, but as his wife, you are still responsible to help meet your husband's physical needs. No, that doesn't mean he has a right to abuse your sex life. That's where we're back to godly character. Post Reply
View Profile History	What's your love language? Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 02:21 PM Reading over everyone's replies and the discussions on sexual and non-sexual touches, snuggling, etc ... I'll share that for me I find I feel my loved one's love the MOST through our intimacy in sex, but I also feel her deep love through just snuggling, kissing, hugging, caressing our feet on each other's feet, giving each other foot and back massages, touching an arm or leg as we are driving or sharing a Quality Time conversation or activity ... these can be both sexual and non-sexual touches to us depending on our mood and situation, of course, and who else we're with, if anyone ... so ... for me having Physical Touch as my primrary love language brings SPECIAL BAREFOOT AND SATISFYING JOY in feeling my loved one's love THE MOST as she expresses her love for me through sex and then I feel her love for me slightly less but just as BAREFOOT SPECIALLY AND HAPPILY AND BLESSEDLY through Physical Touch expressions that do not lead us to the full intimacy of our love in having sex with each other. I have been married once, so I'm speaking from my remembrance of my feelings of love expressed through Physical Touch from that time in my life. Steve Post Reply
View Profile History	What's your love language? Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 02:25 PM I wasn't saying that I can't accept the fact that sex meets a physical need. I don't know how to explain what I mean, so nevermind. I'm just going to chill out and stop overthinking things. Post Reply

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