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Lost Love
Posted : 26 Jul, 2008 07:52 AM

"It is better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all." How true is this statement. Please share your feelings...



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Posted : 14 Aug, 2008 01:24 AM

Strawberri,,,,the rules of the game is totally right,,, smile.



,,,, Hit me in the noggin with the ball,,, I think your right Susie,,,I thought I was out but maybe I was just knocked unconsceince, like ten years so.



Revelation22,,,,Bleacher watching is not allowed,,, we want you in the game as a clean up batter,,,

Going,,, Going,,, Gone,,,!!!:yay:

Also,,,, yes on the dogs,,,dogs are always good,,,,nothing was wrong with your first picture,,, but more is always better,, I think,,,



But the most inportant question Strawberri,,,,, Is it better to have loved and lost than not loved at ALL,,,, HUMMM, HUMMM.



:angel:WOW, WOW, What are you doing to us,,, this question is not fare,,,, there is no good ending to it,,,,

Sniff sniff, cry cry,,,,Now I need to go back into relationship rehab school,,,, I thought I was past all this sorrow,,,

I think my answer is going to be yes,,,

1. Because I did come through it,,,,

2. I brought good things out with me,,,,,

3. I learned,,,,, yes ,,,, boy did I learn,,,smile,,:prayingm:

4. And it was good while it lasted,,,,



Thats all I can say about the matter,,, now back to my doctor's couch,,,, Dr. Helpingme said I could come back and read ya'lls statements,,, He said it would be good for my progress,,,,

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Posted : 14 Aug, 2008 03:57 AM

Hedgedweller,



You have such a great sense of humor!! I would say that it was better to have loved my first husband and lost him when he died at age 25.



I can't say that about my 2 ex-husbands, though. The bad experiences that I had during both of these marriages far outweighs the good ones.



My mother used to say, "If you hadn't married (my first ex.), then you would not have been able to adopt your son. I always replied, "I believe that God would have placed him with me some way!"



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Posted : 14 Aug, 2008 05:15 AM

All right hedgedweller, I'll get outta the bleachers------ can I Pitch ?



Yes, strawberi,

I think better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all is a TRUE statement.

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Posted : 14 Aug, 2008 05:42 AM

I am so proud of "You Guys" thanks for staying in the game and not just being a bench warmer!



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Posted : 14 Aug, 2008 06:38 AM

i would say its better not to have loved at all. because break ups are really nasty yeah?! i mean although you'll remember all the great times you've shared with that person the point still remains that you aren't with them, and sometimes that seems to ring louder than the thought of good times. i mean i fell in love with the wrong guy and i'm still going through that pain. he hurt me so bad and i him. but if i were to go back and do it again. i would change everything. lol. love is crazy its like it never chooses the right mates. sucks. some guy once said. actions shape the feeling. how true is that? hmmm i wonder

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Posted : 14 Aug, 2008 04:13 PM

I'm sorry you are hurting but know that God is a healer of hurts. I feel we have all been hurt by the love bug but what did we take away from the experience. Let the negative become the positive in your life. Ask God..."What did You want me to learn from this situation?" He will hold you close to His heart and whisper sweet nothings in your ear until the beating of your own heart is one with His. He will give you peace in the midst of the pain and one by one the "baggage"will be "Goodwilled" away until all you have left is "new" beginnings.



Be blessed today! Robin

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Posted : 22 Aug, 2008 08:24 PM

Not sure I agree in my emotions.. Not that those emotions drive the train of truth.



I was married 28 years, had 12 children, then had my ex wife call and tell me (at work) that she had been living a lie for 28 years, and NEVER loved me.



Now, I have a lady who loves me, but with 100 miles between us, and my children (blessings, all of them) who are under 18, combined with her busy life, we cannot seem to get together..



In truth, blessings and pain run on parallel tracks, and often run together. I love my kids, but the loneliness of not having a lady to whom I can really live out love makes it tough. I get very lonely.



It may be better to have loved, but it has not come without great cost..

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Posted : 22 Aug, 2008 10:48 PM

Gladdadscott,



Sorry to hear of your "Lost Love" with 12 children, after 28 years. Must have been very traumatic.



I totally understand your struggle in your new relationship and your loneliness. I and I am sure many others here are trying to walk on water of the same sea.



Blessing and comfort to you and all of us from the only source, GOD, the Father through the Holy Spirit.



:prayingf:

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Posted : 23 Aug, 2008 02:33 PM

I appreciate the understanding, and I know if not by the grace of God, I would be in very deep waters. I can understand why people just give up, give in, and become part of the problem. God has kept me from being one of those people..



I remind myself �Know God, know peace, no God.. No Peace.�



Blessings to my Christian friends and family..

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