Author	Thread: Just Putting It Out There
Admin	Just Putting It Out There Posted : 15 Aug, 2010 11:08 PM Being a challenge and being a pain in the butt are 2 different things. Post Reply
springrose10 View Profile History	Just Putting It Out There Posted : 16 Aug, 2010 10:32 PM What I�m hearing is that flirting can be good if it is backed by sincere interest. Flirting should be playful not sensual. Deception at any level is bad. Mean flirting isn�t really flirting at all, it�s just being mean. Playing hard to get is a level of deception. Being a challenge means holding your own in an intellectual/humorous verbal sparring match or general conversation. It is having your own opinions without being closed minded, and not being intimidated by people with opposing opinions. It is desirable to have a partner that will challenge you to become your very best while trying to be their very best. (somebody should turn that into an army slogan, something say like, �Be All That You Can Be.�) Correct my misunderstandings guys! Rose Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Just Putting It Out There Posted : 16 Aug, 2010 10:51 PM That sounds about right to me. Post Reply
View Profile History	Just Putting It Out There Posted : 17 Aug, 2010 02:28 AM What Rose said sums up my thoughts on the topic =) Post Reply
View Profile History	Just Putting It Out There Posted : 17 Aug, 2010 02:30 AM But I've made lots of flirting mistakes, and I usually knew I wasn't being very good at the time too. I hope I'm more mature now! Post Reply
View Profile History	Just Putting It Out There Posted : 19 Aug, 2010 05:45 PM Before I was married I took a fine young lady out shopping. She wanted to buy a clothing.I very gently steered her away from the leoperd pants.:ROFL: I talked her into getting a dress with straps on it.Then I said she needed a top coat.It went well with the dress. When we got in the car she asked me why I had her get the top coat with th dress. I told her I wanted to keep her covered up.:laugh: She was silent.:angeldevil: She did get even.:angeldevil: I choose not to tell what she did.:applause: Your concerned brother,Dennis PS. Do you think I was a challenge or a pain?:hearts: Post Reply
View Profile History	Just Putting It Out There Posted : 20 Aug, 2010 02:36 AM :laugh: ya got me dg. Good story. Not a pain, but maybe not challenging enough? lol Post Reply
GraceMae View Profile History	Just Putting It Out There Posted : 26 Aug, 2010 09:14 PM Humm.... being a challenge or pain? Being a challenge could be fun in that a man and woman can make each other always be on their toes together, making the relationship not so dull, and surprising. When two people can add to each others ability to think and share and grow... Well, that's a good thing, a good "challenge" for keeping the relationship healthy and active and not boring. On the other hand, being a "pain" is when one or the other has to always "be right" about anything most of the time, which makes the relationship or the developing of it further much harder. Being a pain spells out "non-compromising" too. When things have to always be "there way" or having to prove there way of thinking is right, being difficult, or non-compliant, going against the grain... well all that to me is being a "real pain". This really for me applies to all my relationships, not so much opposite sex relating. :glow: ~ GraceMae Post Reply

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