Author	Thread: I need a good advice?? Help please!
Admin	I need a good advice?? Help please! Posted : 9 Jun, 2010 08:13 PM I dont know, but i feel like my heart doesnt want to beat... I�ve talked with some guys from this page, and all have been gentlemen and a good christian guys and good friends... and when at least im interesting on someone special... for some strange situation can not be true or reality, there are a lot of excuses of them to me: for example the distance, age, or because I'm Mexican, because mexico is unsafe, because i'm not white and their parents will not accept me as a wife hahaha, so an unlimited number of silly situations that show that men are not prepared to have a real and a full of love relationship as i wish to have a real christian relationship. But at the same time I am experiencing a strange situation that someone wants to fight for me and my love, but I do not feel completely drawn or attracted to that person, but do not know what to do about it. because I'm interested in someone else who is really important for me, but talking with also a friend almost brother for me , he told me, Yoshua you're a princess, you deserve that someone fight for your love, not you fight for the love of someone, but I do not completely agree on this argument . I cant love both cuz i dont know them in person... but im very interested on one of both.. but.. i dont know sometimes.. i feel like he doesnt want to fight for me as i wish... and of course i will not ask him Please fight for me �� im not that kind of person.. and im praying all days.. but God only tell me.. Joshua 1:9 but also i think on the guy who wants to fight for me. and travel to the old continent for me.. and maybe that�s the man that God wants for me.. but i dont know. But this guy knows that i dont love him and i dont feel nothing emotional for him but he still want to fight for my love.. so... What should i do? HELP PLEASe Post Reply
View Profile History	I need a good advice?? Help please! Posted : 12 Jun, 2010 08:33 PM I feel so sorry for you & wish I could give you a hug & ice cream & pray with you -like a real girlfriend-support. I know how you feel -I used to be there TOO often, but then I was healed & able to grow healthy emotionally. Honey, you are putting too much of your hopes & dreams into your search for a man. It is both unhealthy & unhelpful. It's considered obsessive behavior. So-ask God to help you first get your emotions under control so that you can think clearly about what God wants for you before you just take whatever someone is going to offer you. NOBODY can guarantee not to hurt you! ESPECIALLY someone who is going to love you. It's a fact of life that people are only human & NOONE can be 100% ine very area of their life which means that people FAIL ALL the time & if you don't learn to handle the disappointment & emotional pain, you CAN'T handle an intimate relationship. You need to learn to heal from hurt on your own b/c nobody can help you with that. If God is not enough to comfort you -you will never be satisfied with any man's love. My heart goes out to you & I will keep praying. I wish you JOY in the morning. Psalm 30:5 / Psalm 62:1-8 / Isaiah 54:4-10 PS. Pleasure to meet you Yoshua. My name is Joy. Post Reply
Elisa View Profile History	I need a good advice?? Help please! Posted : 13 Jun, 2010 10:59 PM Hey there, Just a thought and some encouragement. Sometimes I push things too hard. I have had to learn to stop, be still and quiet, then listen carefully. God does not always give me what I want, but he always provides what I need. Also, a wise person once told me to seek what the Lord is doing and then work to help him. By staying on the path and following the Lord, things somehow seem to turn out ok. When I push, it is analogous to fighting through the jungle. When I go where I am supposed to go and take care of the Lord's business, the path seems to smooth out. While not always easy, it is bearable and doable. Rather than trying to figure out which guy is the right one....you might try finding out how you can best serve the Lord and ensure that you are on the correct path. That really seems to work for me. Although, it can be as frustrating as all get out. Hang in there and I will be praying for you. Blessings, Elisa Que Dios Te Bendiga Post Reply
View Profile History	I need a good advice?? Help please! Posted : 15 Jun, 2010 02:13 AM Yoshua, I wish you weren't going through this... Know that this too shall pass. Everything in this life is temporary, and that includes our broken hearts. Even the worst, most shattering aches get better with time and prayer. Just pray through it. Let the Holy Spirit comfort you. And don't let your mind wander... If you find yourself starting to think about it too much, then you need to have the self-discipline to turn your thoughts towards something else. What can be helpful is to keep some kind of list of thing to do when you start to wallow... Distractions can be useful to get over that initial slump of trying to get past hurt (as long as they don't turn into obsessions or anything like that). You are in my thoughts and prayers and you know that you can message me anytime, on here or facebook. Post Reply

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