Author	Thread: Is there a right time to talk about sex?
IamIsabel View Profile History	Is there a right time to talk about sex? Posted : 15 Mar, 2010 07:30 PM Leave it to me to ask this question publicly! I am sure there will be a wide range of differences here. I'll be the sacrifical lamb and go first since I started this thing. :prayingf: I personally believe couples thinking of wedding should talk about sex. However I think it should be carefully considered and perhaps close to their wedding date and maybe a semi public place. lol! I also believe that details should be left out. For the nay sayers I want to just throw this out there. Just imagine two people on the extreme opposites of the spectrum getting married not knowing what they are getting into. I have more opionions but let's see if I get stones thrown at me before moving forward. Post Reply
IamIsabel View Profile History	Is there a right time to talk about sex? Posted : 16 Mar, 2010 09:43 PM An unhappy bedroom makes an unhappy marriage. If a couple are unhappy in the marriage then the marriage bed will suffer. If there are problems in the marriage bed then there will be problems in the marriage. Post Reply
View Profile History	Is there a right time to talk about sex? Posted : 17 Mar, 2010 04:44 PM Is there a right time to talk about sex? Yup ! There sure is a right time...GOD's time...I trust an believe that The Lord will instruct as to when that time will be...pre-marriage or after...but for now...jus dont even think bout it cuz...well...whats the point of thinkin bout somethin that aint come to be yet...it jus side tracks the mind an heart...jus not a good thing...so...focus on the Lord an ALL His ways...xo Post Reply
trubeliever70 View Profile History	Is there a right time to talk about sex? Posted : 17 Mar, 2010 05:07 PM I guess its because i have not always been a christian and i was not raised in church but i dont have a problem talking about sex i think it is very needful and when u r dating the disccusion will come up and i just dont think u should hide from it they will know where u stand and u them. I do agree wtih most on here but there is something i dont agree about and that is discussing it with my pastor...I DONT THINK SO....i could discuss if i was having a problem just a normal problem but not sex. that would between me and the guy i do believe i would die first. there r somethings i dont want my pastor talking with me about. Anyway thats my 2cents. Post Reply
View Profile History	Is there a right time to talk about sex? Posted : 17 Mar, 2010 05:19 PM All premarriage counciling will involve some kind of discussion about every thing. having kids, sex, and paying bills.It may not be detailed in your personal life. My pastor at the time used Fred and Wilma Flintstone.You would have to know him.He made the issue there with out discussing details. He like all pastors my ask you some personal questons to make sure you are right for each other.He told us he married a couple that he thought would not make it only one time.After that he never married anyone with problems again.Dennis . Post Reply
IamIsabel View Profile History	Is there a right time to talk about sex? Posted : 17 Mar, 2010 07:41 PM Godsjude, You are SO RIGHT! Why worry about it when we don't have anyone in front of us anyway! It only stimulates the mind in the wrong direction! lol! Post Reply
View Profile History	Is there a right time to talk about sex? Posted : 17 Mar, 2010 08:02 PM Worries, discontentment, depressions, are the most powerful instrument of Satan in order to win battle against Christian faith. Why worry about sex? about future? If we do believe that in God�s perfect time everything would be fine. If God is the center of our life then nothing to worry about. Post Reply
View Profile History	Is there a right time to talk about sex? Posted : 18 Mar, 2010 07:53 AM God knows what He is doing (Big Understatement). He made sex pleasurable for a reason. As adults we should be able to discuss this without embarrassing anyone and when a couple reach a point where they are discussing marriage...it is tantamount that they discuss sex. I believe that the honeymoon and the "wedding night" is one of the most apprehensive times in a woman's life. Discussing things in a very loving manner would go a long way to alleviating that. The marriage bed and "Love Making" is a vital part of marriage. Arguments and differences are handled a lot easier when husband and wife are being intimate with each other. Stress and strain are also removed or at least lessened. There is no better way of showing your Love and Affection than through Love Making. All that is well and good, but if two people have different expectations -- than good intentions -- go out the door and you have Stress and Strain introduced into your marriage. As it's been pointed out here -- there is a correct way to discuss this subject. It should be approached with Decorum and the Respect and Dignity that we all deserve, yet it is something that eventually must be discussed. Now...Ms. Isabel -- did I read correctly about you saying something about making Love with Sky Diving? As a paratrooper...I have to tell you that I would not advise it. Oh...that reminds me about birth control -- another very important subject that needs to be discussed. Peace Steve Post Reply
View Profile History	Is there a right time to talk about sex? Posted : 18 Mar, 2010 08:35 AM Ata Girl Isabel ~ Re-focus/Dirrect thoughts on the LORD...makes life way more gooder... Stev-A-Reno ~ You are a Fire-Cracker...:laugh:... As far as the Topic change to Birth Control...well..Ya its serious stuff. Messin with Nature an should be discussed with MaMa & Doctor....jus my 2 bits...Yall hava a Blessed day...Luv ya all....xo Post Reply
shepherdingking View Profile History	Is there a right time to talk about sex? Posted : 18 Mar, 2010 11:03 AM Sex is somrthing you do...not talk about. While talking can become a form of foreplay, women should remember that generally they will talk about 50% more than the men. This is a problem for many men. They want sexual intercourse but the wife wants emotional intercourse. They as a team, should make sure they have plenty of both. And if the couple fasts and prays on Tuesday it should be a done deal they will have sex on wensday, 1 cor. 7:1-5. And while pre marriage councilling sounds good, the real conflicts come after marriage. :dunce: Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Is there a right time to talk about sex? Posted : 18 Mar, 2010 11:29 AM GodsJude said: "As far as the Topic change to Birth Control...well..Ya its serious stuff. Messin with Nature an should be discussed with MaMa & Doctor....jus my 2 bits...Yall hava a Blessed day...Luv ya all....xo" Yes, birth control is serious stuff, yes it should probably be discussed with MaMa and Doctor...but I'm guessing the hubby-to-be would appreciate a discussion too at some point. If you plan to use birth control, you wouldn't want to assume that he was providing a birth control method, only to discover at a very inconvenient moment that he thought YOU were providing it. Post Reply

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