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ladythumper

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Men can't handle a confident woman?
Posted : 16 Dec, 2009 08:42 AM

Men fear me since I'm confident. I know what I want and believe and they get me wrong every time. They're use to women who just goes a long with whatever the man says and doesn't have a mind to think for herself. For the record I love men and don't have issues with them.



I refuse to settle for a divorced man simply cuz I'm not divorced nothing more to it than that.



I will have a baby via anonymous sperm donor if God allows it. I'm not doing this as a way to get back at men as some of u think. I'm doing this cuz Im not just going to settle for any man and marry him to have a baby when don't love him.



I will have my baby with this procedure and wait for God to send me the man I will finally love after the baby unless God changes his mind.



None of you understand me yet ur quick to make ur comments and judgements that you do. Who's really judging who here? Doesnt matter what you think I don't really know what kind of person u really are and you don't know me. I'm not here to please any of you male or female I'm here to please God. I certainly don't seek a mere man or woman's approval only God's approval counts.



I will be facing him on judgement day none of you.



Artificial Insemination is not a mistake it's a blessing and nothing in the bible states it's wrong so I'm not sinning against the bible when I have this done. Once I hear the words ur pregnant this will be the happiest day of my life.



The bible is very clear that sex outside of marriage is wrong and men who

are shacking up with wretches who put out.... are living in sin. Fornication

is a sin in the bible.



Gbu

Kimberly:-)

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ladythumper

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Posted : 17 Dec, 2009 05:30 AM

Wooohooo praise to men on here who love a confident woman that gives me hope.



We know Archie appreciated a confident woman.



Excellent scripture Cattleman love the book of Proverbs.



Gbu

Kimberly:-)

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Men can't handle a confident woman?
Posted : 17 Dec, 2009 06:24 AM

Tarasye - in agreement. You commented what I felt as well for ladyt.

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Posted : 17 Dec, 2009 10:04 AM

I love debating�I thoroughly enjoying discussing any topic. It is how I learn much of my knowledge. I want to be corrected! If no one were to point out my wrong thinking � my errors in judgment�I would never learn a whole lot of new things. Some of my best learned knowledge has come from my mistakes and having to correct them. Albeit�.some were costly and painful�yet a very good lesson.



Kimberly, you have many more �lessons� to be learned. It will never stop. The older you get, the more of them you�ve gone through or have had a friend, family member or acquaintance go through them.



You mention that there has to be pleasure involved in order for the transfer of sperm (a man�s seed) into a woman � to be considered �Fornication�. Perhaps you did not give that as much thought as you should have. Victims of abuse�rape do not feel �pleasure�, yet it most certainly is fornication. Even consenting intercourse is sometimes not �pleasurable��.if it were not between husband and wife�would it be fornication then?



The writers of Scripture did not have to address A. I. because it was not even conceived of being possible � or else they would have spoken about it. To them�any �Seed� being presented to a woman�s egg that was not from the Husband� was fornication (with or without pleasure).



Simply put�

�Any attempt to create a child Outside of Marriage was Fornication�.



What happens if during this procedure you get a little �jolt� of pleasure? Will it then become Fornication?

Also ask yourself how many times in the past you were so sure about something only to find out later that you were wrong? Well, this child is not a blouse that you can return or exchange if it is born defective.



Think about this process from start to finish and I warn anyone reading this that it will get perhaps a little bit more graphic than some may want to hear.

It starts with some man wanting to make some extra money for whatever�Christmas shopping for instance. So he goes to a sperm bank and tells them whatever they want to hear and then goes into the �depositing� room and looks through all the different �Playboys� or �Hustler� or �Hugh Gazoos� or whatever is his pleasure and works himself up and Presto!... Kimberly�s baby is born out of Love and�no wait�there was no Love involved�it was �Hugh Gazoos� that caused this baby to be born.

Is that the kind of FATHER you want for your child? Is this the way God intended a child to be born? Fatherless and brought forth through pornography?

I know you are set on doing this and mine or anyone else�s words will not dissuade you, but I would be a poor Christian� a poor human being � if I allowed someone to jump off a cliff just because I disagreed with them.

Kimberly, I so Hope that I have not offended you and again I want to reiterate that God will make a decision on this; for good or bad�God will use this for ultimate good. So I will add My Prayer that GOD�s WILL be done and that your safety and the wellbeing of you and your child be lifted up to God for His Approval and SafeWatching.





Peace



PS Maybe if I keep nagging you�you will not have time or energy to do this�just a thought!

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