Author	Thread: Trusting
rbj66 View Profile History	Trusting Posted : 19 May, 2024 05:59 AM Trust issues i'm sure many have them and it has been posted somewhere. My ex absolutely refused to trust me because of her cheating dad and her mom's brainwashing. After years of unfounded (delusional even) accusations and arguments, i gave her what she wanted in a roundabout way as i was not walking with the LORD then. Not sexually, but i made it look that way as i knew it would hurt her. She wanted to be verbally abusive, i begged her to stop and get help because i didn't want to play head games. Nope. Bark bark bark. So i hurt her back in a way that i knew she couldn't forgive. She did at first but that's another story. I can imagine a couple of answers here to this 🙄, but ladies, how much nagging is too much? Can you admit if you did it? And men, how much do we acquiesce until we've said enough already? Am i to stay on the phone with her 24/7 to ease her mind? Of course not. We can only do so much. When the trust is gone so is the love. There is a whole lot more to this psychologically. It's okay to be a little jealous and we should be, but extremes need therapy. I refuse to continue to try to make someone happy who doesn't want to be. She was conceited, demanding, immature and insecure. Now i am not wholly in agreement with how a few believe women should submit 😬🤐, but it does come into play here. She does not rule the roost, we are a team. Controlling your husband can be weaponizing marriage, and it is explicitly warned against. It can go for the man too of course. "Husbands love your wives" ( only one of course 😉). I tried for 14 years. Who wants to love anyone who has to be heard (screaming like a little brat) but never listens? I stayed for a long time (too long) trying to be a good father figure to her son and a good husband but just was never good enough for her. Finally it came to a head. Where you at? Had this experience? Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Trusting Posted : 20 May, 2024 08:35 AM Hman You constantly judge me and others you know nothing about personally. I have a personal life and associate and know people. I don't have to make up stories! So you a Lie ! Ask God to help you keep your mouth 👄 off Women. Just like you degrading Women all over this site. Post Reply
Jayzeee View Profile History	Trusting Posted : 20 May, 2024 10:41 PM “ you constantly judge me and others you know nothing about personally “ Not the pot calling the kettle black 👀…:-) Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Trusting Posted : 21 May, 2024 04:29 AM Not answering the topic but taking every opportunity to point to me . Seems you the one in error here as usual. Go get that husband. You should have some options by now in Your Country! Jayzeee Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Trusting Posted : 21 May, 2024 04:53 AM Many nice men from USA on the Internet sites :⁠-⁠) Post Reply
LittleDavid View Profile History	Trusting Posted : 21 May, 2024 07:32 AM Why thank you moonlight‼️‼️‼️ 😰🫢 Compliment accepted, I’ll be sure and pass that on to Handyman as well‼️‼️‼️🫠😇😁 Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	Trusting Posted : 21 May, 2024 07:55 AM Better the corner of a roof. (Proverbs 21:9 and Proverbs 25:24) Handyman, you write: " Society has been teaching women for years that it's men who are the problem and not them so blaming men is typically their go to excuse." Reminds me of a t-shirt a woman wore to work. On it, it said: "ALL OUR PROBLEMS BEGIN WITH MEN: MENSTRUATION MENINGITIS MENORRHAGIA MENOPAUSE MENTAL PROBLEMS." Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	Trusting Posted : 21 May, 2024 07:57 AM haha Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	Trusting Posted : 21 May, 2024 08:01 AM Proverbs 21:19 Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife. Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	Trusting Posted : 21 May, 2024 08:03 AM Matthew 19:10 Post Reply
Handyman62 View Profile History	Trusting Posted : 21 May, 2024 10:59 AM "ALL OUR PROBLEMS BEGIN WITH MEN: MENSTRUATION MENINGITIS MENORRHAGIA MENOPAUSE MENTAL PROBLEMS." Can't disagree with that. Wait what? Did I just agree with a woman? Or maybe it was her shirt? I'm so confused. Post Reply

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