Author	Thread: Question on Sex
Shunammite View Profile History	Question on Sex Posted : 16 Jun, 2009 04:28 PM I believe we are all adults here, so I will just put my question out there! No offence intended � please, pardon any! I think that if you�ve never had sex, it is easier to stay chaste unto God in a love relationship. However, I feel after you�ve been married once, it�s a different challenge to handle, should you fall in love again. How do people handle this? That is, if you found someone that you fell in love with, how do you ensure purity in that relationship? My question is premised on the fact that this site is for Christians who believe in scripture � including the many cautions against fornication/adultery. But I also know we are not perfect, so please share your stories of faith and fall/restoration. But please don�t bother telling me �Everyone does it�. Everyone doesn�t ;-) Post Reply
View Profile History	Question on Sex Posted : 4 Jul, 2009 08:08 PM Well, there is some good blogg here.....Shuna is, and with good reason, concerned that she will fall into the sin of fornication after finding a new love. I must say, yes, this is a very real temptation for a woman (or man) who KNOWS WHAT IT'S IS ALL ABOUT. i agree with Steve....who is saying "group dating" ...which means don't go to your date's place and watch videos til 1 a.m. In fact don't put yourself in a situation where you are ever really ALONE (together). Ole Cattle is right, I would not , and did not discuss sex before my marriage. So what are you thinking Steve, should I comment to my future love that I would prefer sex three times a day like I commented to my future husband that I thought 3 kids would be nice? Come on guy! Anyway I have been "sexually sober" (love that Tessa!) since my one and only husband became ill in 2002. And I believe that Tessa hit the nail on the head: PUT GOD FIRST in all things, and everything else will work out. PRAY-- it can't hurt! And lastly: TALKING THINGS OVER WITH FELLOW CHRISTIANS....................In Christian Love........margie Post Reply
prairiewriter View Profile History	Question on Sex Posted : 7 Jul, 2009 10:08 AM I haven't been on here for awhile and it seems I have opened a can of worms. God didn't seem to have a problem talking about the subject, ie. Song of Solomon. The group idea was a bit tonque in cheek, but it has it's merits. My thoughts on discussing the subject could (should) be done in pre-maritial counselling or a Bible study. Steve Post Reply
View Profile History	Question on Sex Posted : 15 Jul, 2009 11:36 PM Okay, let me just lay it on the line. I miss making love. I miss being held. I miss being talked to. I even miss arguing! I have been "sexually sober" for over 16 years. It's not fun. I went through a very long period where I didn't miss it. Now I do. When I have the urge I ask God to take it away. It comes and goes. I'm not sure if God takes it away or I just get tired. I just miss it, plain and simple. Post Reply
View Profile History	Question on Sex Posted : 28 Jul, 2009 10:40 AM If you have love for a person sex is a natural desire, but if you really intend on being pure till marrage, READ JAMES 4; 4 Post Reply

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